Hey there folks, it’s your local loud-mouthed, cute as shit, queer-as-in-fuck-you, lewd, androbabe here, and If you’ve clicked onto this “About” page, then I’m guessing you probably want to know a little bit more about me. I can’t blame you there, because I’m awesome.
My name’s Mx Nillin. I’m non-binary, pansexual, and polyamourous, and my pronouns are they/them/their. I’ve been blogging for seven fucking years already (whoah, right?), and I’ve even won some awards and done some pretty cool stuff in my time on the internets. I live in the mostly heavily conservative and infuriatingly colonial province of Saskatchewan, Canada, for some damn reason, but I have two awesome partners, Fal and Kate, as well as a cat and a guinea pig, named Betty and Cosima, and somehow both entirely too many and also nowhere near enough sex toys, so, I make do!
I started this blog after coming out and being completely unable to find any content that reflected myself. No matter how much I looked, scouring search engines and forums, I just could not find much of any uplifting, empowering, visible, unapologetic content from non-binary people with a penis. I know that’s a pretty common feeling with us queer folks as, so I became hella determined to fill that gap. Even now, this blog is one of very few of its kind and honestly I would love to one day see a lot more because the sex blogging community could sure use a big boost in lewd gender fuckery and nonconformity!
Oh! I also love that blogging allows me to be an ethical exhibitionist in a safe, affirming way, so, enjoy my glorious girlcock!
[Seriously though, if you’re a nonbinary, genderqueer, agender, demi, or gender non-conforming, person with a penis interested in starting your own blog then please drop me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org. I’d be happy to offer some starter guidance to getting your own blog going, as well as some promotion when your ready to start sharing it more publicly.]
Honestly, the best way to get to know me is to read the blog, In it, you’ll learn about my wants, needs, desires and fantasies. My triumphs and fuck ups. But I’ve gathered the most important posts here, if you really want to know what Mx Nillin is all about:
To learn more about my personal life, blogging history, experiences, relationships, and queerness, check out:
- After 7-Years (and Two Days) of Blogging
- Fucking Friends: Why I Need Ethical Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
- How I Learned to Let Go of the Hate and Love My Hairy Tits
- On Being Queer, Disowned, and the Struggles of Legal Name Changes While Fleeing Your Abusers
- How My Nesting Partner and I Moved From Non-Monogamous to Polyamorous
- Why I Post My Nudes Online
For a introductory guide to the blog, including a list of most read posts and most active topic categories, check out the New Here? page.
People With me On My Journey
It’s not all about me! I’m fortunate to have a really amazing partners and friends who I write about often as well:
Fal – My awesome nesting partner who I’ve been married to since 2014! They are queer and non-binary and super fucking rad. They have been with me every step of the way through the most important years of my life and I wouldn’t be where I am today without all of their love and support.
Kate – She has been my best friend for several years and my partner since 2017. Like Fal, she’s been an integral part of my life and has had my back through some of the biggest challenges I’ve ever faced. Kate’s somebody anyone would be lucky as fuck to have in their corner. My #1 hype person!
Kris – A long-time friend who I’ve re-connected with in recent years. We can spend literal hours having deep introspective talks about life, love, sex, spirituality, or even just nerding out endlessly about movies and comics. They’re hot as fuck and I’m real loving jerking off with them at the end of our Skype calls!
Quinn – My play long-distance play partner who blesses me with so much affirmation, support, encouragement, and mind-blowing nudes. An passionate creator and an inspiring peer to many, Quinn writes some of the absolute best queer and trans erotica that I’ve ever read.
Toto – Fal’s longtime friend who I’ve become closer friends with these past few years! They’re one of the most positive, encouraging, and creative people I know. Sometimes we hang out semi-naked and take pictures of each other.
More Mx Nillin
Other than on my own blog, I’ve written for The Crash Pad Series, Molly’s Daily Kiss, and The Centre for Sexual Pleasure and Health. I also had an article of mine included in the BEDFELLOWS: Porn as Pedagogy Exhibit at the Tate Modern Museum of London in October 2016. Additionally, my work can be found featured in Elan Morgan’s Five Star Blog Round-Ups and monthly e[lust] sex blog digests.
Further, I made a guest appearance on The Dildorks podcast [hosted by Kate Sloan and Bex Caputo] to talk about my Mx Nillin Fucks series, was interviewed by Poly Role Models, and have actively participated in the Sex Educators Review Porn panel for Crash Pad Series since 2016.
If you like what you read here, please consider following me on Twitter as well.
Finally if you’d like to reach me, you can do so via one of the means listed on my Contact page.