Welcome to Day 3 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery.
Read 2019’s Day 3 post here: “Hard to Ignore“
Fun fact: it took me nearly 27 years to learn how to pleasure myself.
That’s not to say that I didn’t know how to masturbate or that I didn’t have any orgasms before then or that, because I definitely did and many of them were pretty fucking great. But there’s a huge difference between just getting off and really, truly experiencing pleasure.
One of the biggest parts of my coming out as queer and gender non-conforming has not only been figuring out what feeling sexy looks like for me, but also figuring out how to have pleasure in a body that I spent all of my formative years not understanding. I’ve had to unpack a lot shame feels, find new non-gendered ways of pleasuring myself, and learn to love my body regardless of what weight it’s at, but now I’m finally at a point where I know what I like and how to give it to myself whenever I want it.
And that feels pretty fucking good.
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