You have any friends who, no matter how long it has been since you last saw them, as soon as you’re with each other again it feels as if they never left?
Those friends are the fucking BEST, am I right!? There are very, very few people who I can say that of but Rowan, who I haven’t blogged about in a while, is definitely one of them.
Fal and I met them years ago through roller derby and we all became fast friends. Shortly after we got married in November of 2014 (I actually think it was the same month lol) Rowan came to visit us. We hung out for a few days, played nerdy board games, watched horror movies, pampered ourselves with skin care products, did each other’s nails, and then, after hours of casual flirting and a build up of sexual tension, I had my first EVER threesome experience (like in my whole life) with Fal and them.
In retrospect, I would definitely say it was one of the most transformative, enlightening, and important moments of my personal, sexual, and romantic growth. I mean, it changed ALL of my perspectives on love and relationships, starting me on a deeply introspective journey that would ultimately lead me to discovering my polyamorous nature, working hard to unpack my toxic relationship expectations and behaviors, and beginning discussion with Fal about the role non-monogamy plays in our lives as both a couple and individuals.
Over the years I’ve only been able to see Rowan a handful of times though, which is sad as fuck considering how much I care about them and how important they are to me. They live pretty far away. A solid 6+ hours drive and since Fal and I lost out vehicle in late 2017 it has made visits even more difficult in addition to life just being busy on top of it all.
But luckily for us, Rowan had an unexpected, impromptu opportunity to hop in their car and drive out to see us last weekend. It was just for a couple of days but being with them again was fucking AMAZING! As soon as they got in we were all talking as if no time had passed, like we were just hanging out the day before. We then spent the next 36-ish-hours watching movies, catching up, shopping, eating sushi, and cuddling.
On Sunday, just before they left, I hopped in the shower and invited them in with me. There we took turns washing each other, kissing each other, teasing each other. They stroked my girl cock while I played with their clit and fingered them, kissing their neck and whispering in their ear about how much I had missed their touch. Not wanting Fal to miss out on the fun we got out, dried off and invited them to the bedroom where we had a deeply passionate threesome.
Best part is that the sex was just as fucking incredible as I remembered it! We were fucking ravenous with each other. Fal and I took turns eating Rowan out, dirty talking, and all three of us generally worshiped and thoroughly explored each other’s bodies like it was the first time all over again.
Then I FINALLY got the double blowjob I had been craving and seeking out for most of the year now! Looking down and seeing Rowan and Fal talking turns passing my girl cock between them, sharing in pleasuring me, both moaning and whispering excitedly to each other as they smiled and flirted, was the fucking HOTTEST sight to behold.
I had also almost forgotten that one of the things about having sex with Rowan that always made me feel sexy was how much they LOVE the taste of me. After I came in their mouth, and it was an enormous load, they swallowed and sighed a happy sight before saying “damn I forgot how amazing your cum tastes.”
And that felt so good and affirming and made me seriously feel the sexiest that I have felt in a little while!
I’m still thinking lots about their visit. I’m already missing them terribly, but I’m so happy that I was able to spend some time reconnecting and being affectionate with them. Here’s hoping it’s a shorter time before we can all be together again!
Thank you for the amazing weekend, Rowan! xoxo