You know, I never thought I’d end up becoming one of those horny queers who gets off to having their nose buried in their partner’s armpit, and taking in their scent, but here I am doing exactly that. I dunno what it is, but Fen just smells fucking awesome, like, all the fucking time. They…
Bathing My Boy
My poor boy has been in a lot of pain this past week following his dental surgery from last Monday, so I’ve been making sure that I do my best looking after him in the ways that he needs. Luckily for me, that’s included a lot of intimate care things, such as giving him baths,…
Introducing My Pup: Howl
It’s long overdue, but never too late! While I’ve had him collared for over six months now, I’ve never formally introduced my pup here on the blog. Sadly, I haven’t had the best of experiences with pet ownership over the years. The last time was filled with inconsiderately high expectations, little compromise or consideration, and…
Setting My Non-Negotiable Relationship Boundaries
Generally speaking boundaries come in two core forms for me: those that guide me, but are open to growth and adjustment along my journey, and those which are absolutely essential exactly as they are, their existence being crucial to my feeling emotionally, physically, psychologically, and possibly even financially, safe. Those latter ones are your non-negotiables,…
How I Manage My Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)
Earlier this week I posted about how I experience Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), and planned to have at least half of that focus on tips and guidance on navigating it… instead I just ended up doing a deep dive into my own personal journey and how sustained trauma has had such a huge impact on…