Moments like reaching into your purse and finding your date friend’s bra is still in there from a few days prior when she handed it to you after taking it off outside so that you could play with her breasts better during a late night hookup in a park. Those sort of moments! I’m really…
Tag: friendship
Five Reasons Why I Swipe Right on Tinder
Confession: I fucking love Tinder. Sadly though, it’s not necessarily the best place for a queer, non-binary, polyamorous, demisexual, greyromantic person, such as myself, to find connections that feel safe, comfortable, and understanding. But all is not lost! Here are the five primary reasons that I will likely swipe right on your Tinder profile to…
I Have a Squish on You: Feels From Inside of an Aromantic Crush
Not too long ago I wrote about how I experienced “love” as an aromantic queer, and as part of the discussion that arose with friends and peers afterward I was often asked about whether or not I had ever had a crush on somebody or not. And like, yeah, just not in the way that…
Besties With Benefits
I’m pretty stoked y’all! Despite how challenging the last while has been, and how extra difficult life felt with not being able to see my partners, friends, lovers, and community in the ways that I’d really like to, things have been really starting to come together a bit more as of late. Not only do…
I’m Aromantic and Here’s What Love Means to Me
While I’ve thought a LOT about my sexual orientation and gender over the years, romantic orientation was never really something I actually put much thought or consideration into as a part of my identity until recently. For most of my life I just assumed that everybody ultimately wanted a romantic relationships with romantic partners and…