CW: A picture of girl cock. Friends are the fucking best! They lift you up when you’re feeling down, are always there when you need company, understand when you want to be left the fuck alone, often have front row seats to all of your ups and downs, and are the first to like your…
Tag: my transition
The Importance of Feeling Safe
Holy shit, y’all! For the first time in 4-years, my partner, Falon, and I have gone a FULL MONTH [that’s over 4-weeks] without experiencing any form of transphobic or queerphobic street harassment of any kind. It is fucking glorious! For those of you who have been reading the blog for a while, you may have…
The Ups and Downs of Queer Sex Blogging
[CW: post contains nudes] It has taken a lot of big highs and fucking awful lows for me to get this blog to where it is at today. For those who have been following my writing/blogging from back in late 2011 when I started writing about flat track roller derby at Derby Frontier, through the…
Queer Dissociation: My Sixth Birthday Out of the Closet
[NOTE: Hey peeps, just a heads up that this is more of a personal, rambling piece on queerness, dissociation, and birthdays.] So, it’s my birthday today and I’ve got pretty messed up feels about it tbh. It’s not that I hate birthdays, or even that I dislike them, It’s more that they’re just a…
Why I Don’t Put a Period After the “Mx” In “Mx Nillin”
Fact: the vast majority of people I have interacted with throughout my life do not respect, or even acknowledge most of the terminology I used to describe myself, or that other non-binary or gender nonconforming people use for themselves either. Also fact: most people will either pointedly, defensively, or aggressively, work to undermine the language…