Mx Nillin’s Monthly Refap: June 2017

[CW: Nudity, at the end of this post is a sexually explicit photo depicting oral sex.]

Lots of mixed feels this month as my newsfeeds were flooded with the pinkwashing, tone policing, respectability politics and rainbow splattered corporate banners that have become the heart and soul of Pride Month. It’s extra frustrating watching your community march alongside politicians only there for the good press, carrying disingenuous signs with hollow platitudes like “Love wins”, and grandstanding abusive businesses, all while white lesbian and gay folks actively silence and minimize those who are most vulnerable and marginalized. Wouldn’t want to ruin the party, right?

When Pride is all about making money and prioritizing the comfort of funders, sponsors, and allies… then who is it really for?

When your services and programming is more focused on making your allies, and the most privileged in your community, feel comfortable at the expense of marginalized people… then who are they really for?

When you are hosting your events in spaces that make your marginalized members feel unsafe, at times they cannot be there, and for costs that are unaffordable to them… then who are you really centering?

When you discount and disregard valid expressions of grief, pain, suffering, fear, and anger from marginalized people speaking out against transphobia, racism, harassment, police violence, and systemic oppression… then who are YOU really standing for?

But, I digress. Rather than sit and stew about all of this I instead chose to channel my frustrations into a number of posts, projects, and engaging more with my followers and other queer and trans folx around Saskatchewan. And despite some rough experiences with misgendering, deadnaming, harassment, and tone policing from peeps, this past month was arguably my most productive and successful in a long while.

 

Blog Related Stuff

Once again the new Mx Nillin Fucks post, which will center my efforts to masturbate with a pool noodle, was put off for another month. Instead, my focus turned to reflecting on this blog on a whole, asking myself about what I hoped to accomplish, why it was that I started writing about sexuality, and better focusing in on my pursuits. Ultimately, this is a blog for queer and trans folx written by a foul-mouthed, slutty, androbabe with a PROUD girl cock and I intend to keep it that way. Over the next few months I hope to branch out with some other projects and work too so keep an eye out here for updates! Anyway, now for the new content from this month:

 

A Re-Do on Trans Day of Remembrance, Sex Ed Porn Reviews, Nudes From a Handsome Man, and Blowjob Pics

  • Early in June my partner and I traveled to Regina to table Mx Nillin at the TransSask Support Services 2017 Gender Fair. As part of that display, I made a sexy new blog info sheet to use at future events.
  • A week later we went live on Facebook to read out the names of TDoR 2016 victims for those in Moose Jaw who were upset about them not being read at the memorial service last November. It was very important to us, and others, that their names were said aloud here. During our live post we talked at length about how trans people are erased and invalidated in death by news media, coroners, police, obituaries and their families. We also discussed how TDoR is first most and foremost a memorial service for trans and queer folk to grieve those lost and honor their memories. Say their names, y’all…
  • I was invited to watch and tweet about Crash Pad Series’ Episode 240, starring Andre Shakti and Dante DeMoan, and Episode 241, starring Surgeon and Maggie McMuffin. Tweeting about them marked my 1-Year Anniversary of participating in the #SexEdPornReviews feature for Crash Pad Series!
  • Okay this one is actually from the end of last month but I was sexting with a handsome man, who I’ve been acquaintance friends with for a while now, and he sent me dirty messages and lewd pics and vids and I’m kinda all about them. And I know that you’re reading this… my inbox is always open so… *suggestive wink*
  • My partner and I have long planned to take blowjob pics and those FINALLY happened! We may have made a short vid too, but that one’s for sharing with friends only. Anyway, check out my fave from the set below in this month’s slutty pic.

 

Mx Nillin’s Slutty Pic of the Month

This month’s pic guest stars my partner with their amazing blowjob skills! Here they are sucking my girl cock.

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Mx Nillin’s Monthly Refap: January 2017

[CW: nudes and NSFW pics below]

 

No big intro necessary, there’s a lot to cover this time as I missed December’s Monthly Refap too, so, let’s just get to it!

Blog Related Stuff

A lot of new posts and changes have come to the blog since the last Monthly Refap. Here are all of the posts that went live in December 2016 and January 2017:

Additionally, there are 3 new permanent pages found on the main navigation bar. One will house all of the Monthly Refap posts, another will collect current and future Ethical Exhibitionism post, and finally, there is officially a Nudes [18+ Only] gallery of all of my favorite sexy and pet play pics.

 

Sex Ed Stuff

My 2nd semester interning at the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health officially started this past January 14th, but I had technically been working all throughout the winter holidays learning their social media schedule and fixing up the website a bit. For this Spring, I’m going primarily be helping operate FB and Twitter post scheduling, doing the Week in Review posts for the CSPH blog, while also completing website maintenance as needed.

Honestly, it feels REALLY good having so many consistent responsibilities to help the organization out. I’m getting a solid 8 or more hours of intern work a week now and in a lot of ways I’m really enjoying the experience of this semester even more than last Fall!

That being said, my writing here on the blog has really taken a backseat because of the increased internship workload, so, I plan to make more time for my own writing in February.

 

Pet Play, Fantasy Cocks, and SO Much Boobs

  • I did my first #SexEdPornReviews of the year for Crash Pad Series and had a lot of feels about how important queer porn is in my life.
  • Just last week I got all dressed up in my cat ears, tail, collar, and some slutty lingerie then posed for my partner who took the cutest, and hottest, gallery of me. They walked me around by a leash before ordering me to suck a dildo, fuck myself with it, jerk off into a cat food dish, and then lick the dish clean. You can check out some of the pics in the Nudes gallery!
  • Speaking of a dildo to suck and fuck, I was recently gifted a fantasy cock, the Sleipnir [size small], from a good friend and I seriously cannot get enough of it. It feels incredible and is hands down one of the best toys I have ever used for anal penetration so far. Of course, now I’m hooked on fantasy cocks in general and I want more…
  • Just last week, while feeling both depressed and frisky, I made a joke post about nobody sending me dick pics anymore so I would just have to send my own to myself. But a bunch of my femme friends actually stepped and surprised me with boob pics! I love that sexy selfies are the “mood lifter” among my friends.
  • At this point I think it’s safe to say that I’ve seen sexy selfies from, and have been seen naked by, most all of my closest friends with the exception of just a couple… which is pretty fucking awesome. Ya’ll are the best.

 

Mx Nillin’s Slutty Pic of the Month:

Okay, so there’s two of them this time. You’re welcome.

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My Fucket List: The Sex I Want in 2017

2016 was a pretty big year for sexual experiences. I traded a bunch of nudes with quite a few different friends, was seen naked by a LOT of people online (booya!), had some pretty great public sex, did my first ever cum tribute to a big crush of mine, sucked some FANTASTIC girl cock, and enjoyed quite a few great threesomes and foursomes with my partner and our sexy friends.

But there is still so much more I want to do. Here are 6 things from my sexual bucket list, which I call a Fucket List (hahhhhh, get it?), that I REALLY hope happen in 2017!

 

  • Have somebody take a POV pic of me sucking their cock

Confession: some of the sex pics that turn me on the most are those POV ones of somebody sucking cock. Seriously. They’re fucking hot and this is the year I want somebody to take a sexy and cute picture of me sucking their cock!

 

  • Take my first legit facial-selfie

On that note, I can pound this one out right afterward! Once upon a time [last year] I ejaculated on my own face and took some selfies of the aftermath. Admittedly, they turned out SUPER cute [still have all of those photos], but it just didn’t feel as good as I had hoped. I want an real facial selfie… like, with another person’s semen coating my mouth, chin, and cheeks as I make lust eyes at the camera. So, at some point in 2017 I want to suck cock, get that person to take a snap of me with their genitals in my mouth, then jerk them off all over my face, and snap the cutest selfie I can for my Twitter followers.

This WILL happen.

 

  • Do a cam show

I’ve masturbated with, and for, partners over video chat before but doing a cam show is a whole other thing. At some point this year I’m hoping to set up an account on a queer and trans friendly site and put on a show for a bunch of strangers, maybe make a little money while doing it too!

 

 

  • Go to, or host, a masturbation party!

I love masturbating, especially mutual masturbation. Be it with my partner, with a friend, or with my partner AND a friend, mutual masturbating is awesome. But a masturbation party… that’s next level; and it’s something I’ve loooong fantasized about. I’m really hoping to make 2017 the year I get to one. If I can’t find something that is queer and trans safe and inclusive then I may have to take things into my own hands… and organize it myself. Invite some select queer friends to come over and hang out, eat some snacks, listen to some music, talk about self-pleasure, maybe watch some queer porn, and all masturbate together! You know, as friends do!

 

  • Get Spitroasted

For those not in the know, a “spitroast” occurs when somebody is penetrated from behind while they simultaneously provide oral sex to another person. Typically, this tends to involve penises penetrating and receiving oral BUT, despite what the internet says, those rules are not mandatory.

Whether you are giving oral to a penis or a vagina, or you’re penetrated by somebody’s genitalia, fingers, fist, or a toy, you can define the “spitroast” however you like so that it works for you and your partner[s].

Personally, I fantasize about this happening with my partner penetrating me from behind with their strap-on while I pleasure one of our friends. Fingers crossed!

 

  • More social nudity!

Not necessarily sex related at all, I kinda just want to do a bunch more nudist socializing stuff in general next year. Like, clothing optional games nights, movie nights, meals, whatevs. Have some friends over, watch Netflix, be pantsless. Perfect.

 

Whats on sexual experiences do you hope to have or explore in 2017?

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