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		<title>Look at the Evidence</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2026 06:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Continuing on the &#8220;I&#8217;m 40 now&#8221; train with some more fat, queer, body positivity! First, some feels. I&#8217;m at the largest I&#8217;ve ever been in my life and for the last year or so it&#8217;s been a source of self-doubt and criticism more than I&#8217;d like to admit. My stomach hangs out farther than it...]]></description>
		
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		<title>This Is 40</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 06:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It feels like &#8220;Nillin&#8221; has barely had a chance to fully exist yet, and then I blink, and suddenly I&#8217;m already 40! I guess it makes sense. I only really came out as queer and trans in the early 2010s, at which point I was 26 and practically vibrating with gay need. But that&#8217;s what&#8217;s...]]></description>
		
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		<title>All the Creatures Were Stirring</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 06:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[As 2025 comes to a close I find myself thinking a lot about the friends I&#8217;ve met, the community I&#8217;ve built, and the growth I&#8217;ve experienced over this past year. I&#8217;m so thankful for all of these new connections that will carry with me into the new year, and for the deeper understanding in myself...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Breaking The Anxious Avoidant Dance</title>
		<link>https://mxnillin.com/breaking-the-anxious-avoidant-dance/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2025 05:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When you&#8217;ve had to operate emotionally at a 10 for so long, it&#8217;s hard accepting that you&#8217;re safe enough to relax and not operate in survival mode. I made a lot of really big mistakes last year while in an activated state that I really regret. Mistakes that almost cost me one of the most...]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Asked Former Partners, Play Friends, and Hookups to Give Me Feedback</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Nov 2024 04:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[If you haven&#8217;t checked it out yet, you should go and read the bold and interesting post that Girl on the Net (follow her on Bluesky) put up this week. It was originally posted on a site that she used to write for, but sadly is gone now. Fortunately, many of her pieces survived in...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Ever Changing Pleasures</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Nov 2024 06:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It still hasn&#8217;t fully sunk in yet for me that I&#8217;m actually on HRT. This past September I made the trek from Saskatoon to Moose Jaw to finally talk with a doctor about the possibility of taking steps toward some degree for medical transition. I knew that I didn&#8217;t want any bottom or top surgery,...]]></description>
		
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		<title>The 38-Year-Old Queer</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jul 2024 02:53:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In the past I&#8217;ve only done these posts every five years; first when I turned 30 and then again at 35. In both cases I reflected on difficult feelings about my identity and how bad my mental health always gets around my birthdays. It&#8217;s a trauma response for sure. After so many years of disappointment...]]></description>
		
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		<title>It&#8217;s Harder Now: How Viagra Is Improving My Confidence</title>
		<link>https://mxnillin.com/its-harder-now-how-viagra-is-improving-my-confidence/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2024 08:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Erectile dysfunction (ED) is rough. Even just talking about it can be a challenge, especially when you&#8217;re younger like me (I&#8217;m just turning 38) and everyone seems to think that this shouldn&#8217;t be a problem for you right now. Yet for the last few years I&#8217;ve silently been struggling with it following a series of...]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Had No Future Until Now</title>
		<link>https://mxnillin.com/i-had-no-future-until-now/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2024 07:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Nobody said this was gonna be easy, but I didn&#8217;t think that it would be this hard either. I&#8217;m on a bunch of dating apps, matching with people here and there, but they&#8217;re all widely dead ends. Missed connections, conflicting schedules, drops in conversation, a lack of energy on both sides, it&#8217;s all contributed to...]]></description>
		
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		<title>When Polyamory and Non-monogamy Gets Hard; Unpacking Big Feelings and Re-Centring Yourself</title>
		<link>https://mxnillin.com/struggling-in-polyamory-and-non-monogamy/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2024 03:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Content note: mention of sexual assault. For the last decade I&#8217;ve been polyamorous and in non-monogamous relationships. Overall I can confidently say that I&#8217;ve felt pretty good about it, and it&#8217;s had a positive impact on my life. I&#8217;ve met some really amazing people and had a lot of profoundly memorable experiences with them. It...]]></description>
		
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