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		<title>Breaking The Anxious Avoidant Dance</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2025 05:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When you&#8217;ve had to operate emotionally at a 10 for so long, it&#8217;s hard accepting that you&#8217;re safe enough to relax and not operate in survival mode. I made a lot of really big mistakes last year while in an activated state that I really regret. Mistakes that almost cost me one of the most...]]></description>
		
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					<description><![CDATA[Sometimes things don&#8217;t line up when you really want them to. Like when a girl you like a whole lot isn&#8217;t in the right place to have an intimate connection with you, and then when she is you&#8217;re not in a place to have one with her. And then she moves over four-thousand kilometres away...]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Had No Future Until Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2024 07:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Nobody said this was gonna be easy, but I didn&#8217;t think that it would be this hard either. I&#8217;m on a bunch of dating apps, matching with people here and there, but they&#8217;re all widely dead ends. Missed connections, conflicting schedules, drops in conversation, a lack of energy on both sides, it&#8217;s all contributed to...]]></description>
		
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		<title>When Polyamory and Non-monogamy Gets Hard; Unpacking Big Feelings and Re-Centring Yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2024 03:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Content note: mention of sexual assault. For the last decade I&#8217;ve been polyamorous and in non-monogamous relationships. Overall I can confidently say that I&#8217;ve felt pretty good about it, and it&#8217;s had a positive impact on my life. I&#8217;ve met some really amazing people and had a lot of profoundly memorable experiences with them. It...]]></description>
		
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2024 09:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been having some coffee dates with a new person this past month and y&#8217;all, it&#8217;s been pretty great. They&#8217;re so cute and I&#8217;ve had a crush on them for quite a while, but we just kinda circled each other online and in our local polyam and LGBTQ community up until now. Building this new...]]></description>
		
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Dec 2023 07:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Non-Monogamy Is Really Important to Me</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Nov 2023 10:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been wanting to write this post for a quite while, but have put it off because I was worried it might feel, or even just seem like, I&#8217;m trying to justify myself as a non-monogamous person vs celebrating it. That&#8217;s what I want to do here, celebrate my nonmonogamy while providing insight into my...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Setting My Non-Negotiable Relationship Boundaries</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jun 2023 10:14:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Generally speaking boundaries come in two core forms for me: those that guide me, but are open to growth and adjustment along my journey, and those which are absolutely essential exactly as they are, their existence being crucial to my feeling emotionally, physically, psychologically, and possibly even financially, safe. Those latter ones are your non-negotiables,...]]></description>
		
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		<title>How My Relationship Needs Have Evolved Over the Pandemic</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2023 05:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been thinking an awful lot about my needs and wants when it comes to relationships lately. In early 2021, shortly after the big parts of the pandemic lockdown were starting to lift, I was in a pretty chaotic state of being. Following months of emotional turmoil, gaslighting, arguments, manipulation, intimidation, and yelling, all culminating...]]></description>
		
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		<title>I&#8217;m Not Okay: Fear and Self-Loathing in 2023</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Mar 2023 06:15:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[CW: discussion of abuse, SA, severe mental health struggles, depression, negative self-talk, etc. Okay, I think it&#8217;s time to talk about my insecurities and anxieties more because I feel like they&#8217;re at an all-time high. Or low? I dunno, whichever. Basically, I feel like shit about myself and just, like, not confident at all. I...]]></description>
		
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