Guess what, fam!? Just this past week I delved into pet play for the first time ever and, despite my nerves and fears that I’d be really shitty at it, I think it actually went REALLY well!
Raven and I have both been wanting to do it for a while now. It was something we had discussed early on as potentially being a core type of BDSM play in our queerplatonic relationship dynamic both because it was a mutual kink interest and because Raven had long been a kitten without a master. Yet as thrilled as I was about experimenting with pet play – and possible even collaring them eventually – I’d be lying if I said that part of me wasn’t really nervous that I’d be a crappy master!
While I often soft-Dom for Fal in a lot of our everyday rough sex and general fucking, I’ve never really been confident at it. It’s more something that I’ve enjoyed doing for others, not so much for myself per-say, because I’m a pretty gentle and affectionate person outside of kinky play. So, I’ve always struggled with being the assertive, strong, domineering, mean Dom that I know my partners sometimes need.
That’s not to say I don’t fucking LOVE hurting my partners for their, and my, pleasure of course. Because I definitely fucking do. It’s the attitude and character of a Dom that I lack.
With Raven though I don’t necessarily need to worry about that because in this case I’m their Master and our play planning has generally revolved around more submissive and soft subservient pet play. I can be firm, and a little mean, but not feel pressure about changing my personality to a BDSM archetype that doesn’t feel like the right fit for me.
It also helped that a few hours before we actually got about to playing, Raven told me that it would be okay if the first time was garbage. That affirmation, along with their assurance that they were just excited to explore this dynamic with me in our own unique way, made me feel significantly more comfortable and calm about .
As for what we got up to, I used black licorice snacks (one of Raven’s favorite candies) as rewards for them performing tricks and undressing themself for me using just their paws, no fingers. Of course they had to get those treats by crawling across the bed on their paws and knees to gently retrieve them from atop my girl cock.
Once Raven was completely undressed, I slowly inserted their favorite vibrating butt plug then laid back as they humped my thigh, making it slicker and wetter with each thrust as their pre-cum coated my skin.
Watching, and feeling, their kitten parts slide over me was obviously hot as fuck, so I started to jerk off and it wasn’t long before I already felt my orgasm nearing. To my surprise though, my kitten begged for me to finish in their mouth. Of course I HAD to say yes and as soon as their lips wrapped around the head of my girl cock I started to cum.
They lifted their head, closed their eyes, carefully savored the taste of me in their mouth for a moment, and swallowed the whole load in one satisfied gulp. Licking their lips they then looked at me with these deeply hungry eyes, lost in their own lust, and I knew that my kitten was far from being done with playing with me…
It just sounds so cute!!
Eeeeee it WAS so cute!!
Pet play is not really my thing and yet like so much of your writing I find myself having an unexpected reaction…. as for the picture, all I have for that is ouufff
Molly
It’s honestly feels really great and makes me smile a lot when I write about something you’re not usually into and it elicits these sort of responses from you! 😍
Glad you liked the photo too!
This is a great picture, and I’m glad it was such a good experience for you both. My fave thing about it all is the wanting to be great at it but worrying you wouldn’t be — blame too many times of witnessing overly arrogant people think they can dom anyone (it’s a pleasant surprise when that’s NOT the case). I’m happy for you on multiple levels is what I’m trying to say, lol.
Thank you so much, Kayla! And I think you’re right about that insecurity coming from witnessing cocky and arrogant Doms in most things (from mainstream depictions to porn scenes).
I also find that since BDSM is framed so heavily through cisnormative and heteronormative lenses it’s hard for me as a queer enby to find what feels comfortable with Domming cause, well, EVERYTHING about the role tends to exude typical, sometimes toxic, manliness or hardcore, ball-busting, sometimes problematic sissification and femdom. I’m not comfortable in either of those arenas, sooooo 🤷♂️
Anyway, it did go well and I had a blast! Thanks so much for the great message!
While pet play is not my thing, I find it fascinating. Thanks for sharing this hot encounter xx
Thank you for reading! 😊
I so enjoyed reading this. I never really knew what pet play would look like exactly but it sounds like you had so much fun, despite being nervous about it at first, and it really comes through.
I didn’t really know what it would look like either but just leaning into it, mixing light servitude, soft Domming, and fantasy play (the human kitten doesn’t), made for a really great first experience to build from. Thank you for reading!! ❤
That all sounds so fucking hot! I’ve never seen the attraction of pet okay but my mind may have been changed!
Yay! That’s so good to hear! If you ever decide to try it out yourself please let me know what you think!