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		<title>The Year of the Furry</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2025 06:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sure that my regular readers quickly noticed a heightened focus on furry content about half-way through this past year. While I&#8217;ve posted little reviews of furry porn comics and games in the past, it&#8217;s always been rather sporadic because I was anxious about alienating those who frequented the blog for my regular queer nudes...]]></description>
		
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		<title>My Favourite Nudes &#038; Lewds of 2025</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2025 06:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Y&#8217;all, this is the first time in decades that I&#8217;m nearing the end of December and I&#8217;m &#8220;damn, what a great fucking year!&#8221; 2025 saw me not only writing another book, but two more in Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphbobic and Queerphobic Baggage, and, Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity, with Thornapple Press. Both come out...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Creature Comfort</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2025 11:08:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Now this is exactly what I&#8217;m talking! I asked my partner Fen, aka Dilutedghost, to do a drawover for me of my truesona Malbec because I&#8217;ve been really experimenting with how I can explore and express queer masculinity in an affirming way with my body. I am honestly blown away by how perfect it turned...]]></description>
		
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		<title>WhoreMOANal</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2025 03:26:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My body is sore, I&#8217;m tired, irritable, ravenously snackish, grumpy, emotional, defensive, and it feels like everything is conspiring against me. The sensations aren&#8217;t entirely new, but they&#8217;ve been happening more and more often, almost every month at this point. And each time it feels like my world is unravelling around me. Like all my...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Breaking The Anxious Avoidant Dance</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2025 05:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When you&#8217;ve had to operate emotionally at a 10 for so long, it&#8217;s hard accepting that you&#8217;re safe enough to relax and not operate in survival mode. I made a lot of really big mistakes last year while in an activated state that I really regret. Mistakes that almost cost me one of the most...]]></description>
		
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		<title>2024 Foreword INDIES Book of the Year Finalist</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2025 04:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m thrilled to share that my first book, &#8220;How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers,&#8221; is a 2024 Foreword INDIES Book of the Year Finalist for LGBTQ+ Adult Nonfiction! I wrote &#8220;How Do I Sexy?&#8221; between Summer 2022 and Fall 2023. It essentially serves as a physical copy of all my...]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Asked Former Partners, Play Friends, and Hookups to Give Me Feedback</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Nov 2024 04:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[If you haven&#8217;t checked it out yet, you should go and read the bold and interesting post that Girl on the Net (follow her on Bluesky) put up this week. It was originally posted on a site that she used to write for, but sadly is gone now. Fortunately, many of her pieces survived in...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Ever Changing Pleasures</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Nov 2024 06:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It still hasn&#8217;t fully sunk in yet for me that I&#8217;m actually on HRT. This past September I made the trek from Saskatoon to Moose Jaw to finally talk with a doctor about the possibility of taking steps toward some degree for medical transition. I knew that I didn&#8217;t want any bottom or top surgery,...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Like It Was Yesterday; My Comet Partner</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Aug 2024 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sometimes things don&#8217;t line up when you really want them to. Like when a girl you like a whole lot isn&#8217;t in the right place to have an intimate connection with you, and then when she is you&#8217;re not in a place to have one with her. And then she moves over four-thousand kilometres away...]]></description>
		
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		<title>The 38-Year-Old Queer</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jul 2024 02:53:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In the past I&#8217;ve only done these posts every five years; first when I turned 30 and then again at 35. In both cases I reflected on difficult feelings about my identity and how bad my mental health always gets around my birthdays. It&#8217;s a trauma response for sure. After so many years of disappointment...]]></description>
		
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