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		<title>My Favourite Nudes &#038; Lewds of 2025</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2025 06:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Y&#8217;all, this is the first time in decades that I&#8217;m nearing the end of December and I&#8217;m &#8220;damn, what a great fucking year!&#8221; 2025 saw me not only writing another book, but two more in Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphbobic and Queerphobic Baggage, and, Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity, with Thornapple Press. Both come out...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Wanting</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2025 06:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I get these really strong desires for a copious amount of chill, no-strings-attached sex. I hyper fixate on it, thinking it&#8217;s all I need for days at a time. It would be easy then to hop in a car with some random boy and jerk off together, or suck each other off, then part...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Horny Sad Boy Vibes</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2025 03:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Happy Pride month, all! This year I&#8217;ve been really investing a lot into my self-expression, especially in terms of buying clothing and generally following through with transition related goals that bring me the most joy and affirmation in who I am. As a part of this I&#8217;ve also been leaning more and more into being...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Breaking The Anxious Avoidant Dance</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2025 05:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When you&#8217;ve had to operate emotionally at a 10 for so long, it&#8217;s hard accepting that you&#8217;re safe enough to relax and not operate in survival mode. I made a lot of really big mistakes last year while in an activated state that I really regret. Mistakes that almost cost me one of the most...]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Asked Former Partners, Play Friends, and Hookups to Give Me Feedback</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Nov 2024 04:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[If you haven&#8217;t checked it out yet, you should go and read the bold and interesting post that Girl on the Net (follow her on Bluesky) put up this week. It was originally posted on a site that she used to write for, but sadly is gone now. Fortunately, many of her pieces survived in...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Like It Was Yesterday; My Comet Partner</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Aug 2024 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sometimes things don&#8217;t line up when you really want them to. Like when a girl you like a whole lot isn&#8217;t in the right place to have an intimate connection with you, and then when she is you&#8217;re not in a place to have one with her. And then she moves over four-thousand kilometres away...]]></description>
		
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		<title>The 38-Year-Old Queer</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jul 2024 02:53:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In the past I&#8217;ve only done these posts every five years; first when I turned 30 and then again at 35. In both cases I reflected on difficult feelings about my identity and how bad my mental health always gets around my birthdays. It&#8217;s a trauma response for sure. After so many years of disappointment...]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Had No Future Until Now</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2024 07:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Nobody said this was gonna be easy, but I didn&#8217;t think that it would be this hard either. I&#8217;m on a bunch of dating apps, matching with people here and there, but they&#8217;re all widely dead ends. Missed connections, conflicting schedules, drops in conversation, a lack of energy on both sides, it&#8217;s all contributed to...]]></description>
		
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		<title>When Polyamory and Non-monogamy Gets Hard; Unpacking Big Feelings and Re-Centring Yourself</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2024 03:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Content note: mention of sexual assault. For the last decade I&#8217;ve been polyamorous and in non-monogamous relationships. Overall I can confidently say that I&#8217;ve felt pretty good about it, and it&#8217;s had a positive impact on my life. I&#8217;ve met some really amazing people and had a lot of profoundly memorable experiences with them. It...]]></description>
		
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		<title>Wholesome Gay Coffee Dates</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MxNillin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2024 09:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been having some coffee dates with a new person this past month and y&#8217;all, it&#8217;s been pretty great. They&#8217;re so cute and I&#8217;ve had a crush on them for quite a while, but we just kinda circled each other online and in our local polyam and LGBTQ community up until now. Building this new...]]></description>
		
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