Ah yes, top blog lists… when they’re not actively promoting transphobes and racists they’re often only uplifting white, cishet writers who increase blog flow traffic, or, they’re measuring our worth based upon social media metrics on platforms that actively shadowban and censor adult content. Fun times for those with trans and queer sex blogs!
With the recent dumpster fire of Kinkly yet again being ignorant and dismissive toward minority writers, I wanted to take a moment to acknowledge all of the incredible trans and queer writers that have to put up with an awful lot of ignorant bullshit online and yet still manage to generate insightful, inspiring, educational, affirming, erotic, and entertaining as fuck content!
No votes! No Prizes! No rankings! Just a list of 40-ish awesome sex positive, pleasure informed, kink friendly, anti-oppressive sex blogs from queer and/or trans sex bloggers around the world.
DISCLAIMER: This list is entirely subjective and 100% based upon my personal vetted experiences with the following bloggers. Transphobes, queerphobes, cisnormative writers, and other bigots will not be featured on this list, nor will those who have:
- liked transphobic or trans-antagoistic posts or comments
- retweeted transphobic, queerphobic, racist, ableist, or otherwise bigoted sentiments or comments in agreement, or indifference to, those toxic ideals,
- supported or defended any such persons or behavior, even if they’re “totally not like that”.
Further, this list will not include anybody that I have personally experienced transphobia, queerphobia, or tone policing from as I do not feel comfortable promoting those who have made me feel unsafe, disregarded, disrespected, or invalidated as a trans and queer person.
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