Comments on: I’m a Switchy Bitch; What BDSM and Being Kinky Means to Me https://mxnillin.com/a-switchy-bitch/ A very NSFW, pleasure focused, kink friendly, sex blog for trans queers and furries. Tue, 16 Aug 2022 01:50:38 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: MxNillin https://mxnillin.com/a-switchy-bitch/#comment-12306 Sat, 23 Jul 2022 05:17:55 +0000 https://mxnillin.com/?p=12797#comment-12306 In reply to Quinn Rhodes.

I’m so glad that the post resonated with you like this! And I’m really happy for you that you found the dynamic balance that brings you pleasure and joy too.

Hells yeah on that playful/physical struggle for dominance, right? Thank you for all the affirmations! It was strangely a little intimidating putting this up because, well, talking about what didn’t work with others, and what I hope works now is scary and vulnerable. But I’m glad I posted it!

]]> By: Quinn Rhodes https://mxnillin.com/a-switchy-bitch/#comment-12300 Thu, 21 Jul 2022 19:18:40 +0000 https://mxnillin.com/?p=12797#comment-12300 Oh fuck, I have some FEELINGS about this post. I think everything you say about fluidity in relationships and in bed and in the roles we’re expected to fill for our partners is super important. I definitely used to think I wanted a formal, 24/7 D/s relationship, but honestly while I have *some* of that in my relationship, it’s definitely not as high protocol as I once fantasised about. I am here for the flexibility, here for the switchiness, here for playful/physical struggles for dominance! (Also, ahem, some of your descriptions of your sex with Fenric in this post is VERY hot.) I’m glad you know yourself better and are surrounding yourself with partners who don’t expect you to fill roles for them at the expense of your own needs.

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