Comments on: My Happy Place is an 80s (Sex) Mansion

By: Annie savoy

Annie savoy — Sun, 06 Oct 2019 18:45:18 +0000

Your writing is lovely and evocative and so beautifully honest plus I adore this picture! The pool water brings out your incredible eyes and pop of color in your hair is glorious You look like a merperson in their natural habitat. Incredible.

By: Bee

Bee — Sun, 06 Oct 2019 12:27:02 +0000

I don’t have a single happy place I go to but being around water, preferably a warm ocean, is definitely calming.

Although an 80s sex mansion maybe somewhere I could class as a happy place too!

By: LittleSwitchBitch

LittleSwitchBitch — Thu, 03 Oct 2019 18:01:55 +0000

You look super chilled and peaceful here, everyone needs a happy place x

By: Kayla Lords

Kayla Lords — Thu, 03 Oct 2019 15:31:54 +0000

I think having a happy (and safe!) place is really important, and I am so glad you have that.

By: MxNillin

MxNillin — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 03:48:23 +0000

In reply to Optical Love Story.

Yeah! There’s actually a few places like this out in the prairie provinces. There’s also a big BDSM Convention that runs outside Saskatoon at a not-publicly-disclosed location. These are ultra-conservative provinces but it’s really empowering to see despite all of that there are queer, trans, and polyamorous communities creating the spaces they need to be themselves and experience safe, affirming, respectful experiences of pleasure outside of the binary boxes.

I’m confident there are “sex mansions” (or houses, or farms, or wherever people can host these things) in EVERY province, they are just not put out there too much because society is still super shitty about sex and “non-traditional” relationship structures and stuff.

Yay for horny queers making it work still! LOL

By: MxNillin

MxNillin — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 03:43:09 +0000

In reply to Jupiter Grant. It really is, wish I could share it with you all too! And thank you!

By: Zoe K

Zoe K — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 02:48:52 +0000

Lovely image, great colours.

By: Optical Love Story

Optical Love Story — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 00:27:08 +0000

This makes me so happy that there are places like this in Canada. I have never known of any but I’m happy to know they exist 🙂

By: D. Faust

D. Faust — Tue, 01 Oct 2019 17:41:06 +0000

This is awesome. I’m super happy for you. I would have loved to find or check out a place like this when I was active in the Polyam community.
Love the pic btw. You look so relaxed and color/light is fun.

By: Annabel Lee

Annabel Lee — Tue, 01 Oct 2019 11:34:07 +0000

It’s such a great feeling to find a place where you can truly be yourself. To be able to share it with the best of people, makes it that much more special.