Going to a gloryhole has always been on the top of my list of hot as fuck things to do. The thought of sucking off a complete stranger, or sticking my cock in a hole and being serviced by somebody I never see, is a major turn-on as a sexual fantasy. However, in reality, there is SO much to consider from a safety and wellness standpoint in terms of STBBIs and physical safety as a visibly gender nonconforming person that it’s not something I think I’ll ever actually feel comfortable doing.
Sure, I might be able to live out this fantasy in part with a partner, or even some close friends, but that still takes planing and it’s not quite the same thing, if that makes sense. Though I imagine that would also be quite fun!
For now though, I can live this one out vicariously through my fursonas. Like with this YCH from MaryeCoffe of my boy Earl Gray all bent over and ready for business! I hope a lot of folks enjoy him, over and over and over and over again.
In other news, I’m excited to announce that my second book, Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphobic and Queerphobic Baggage, is available for preorder! It comes out on March 20th, 2026. You can also preorder my third book, Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity, which releases April 27th, 2026.
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