About

Photo courtesy of Evie Johnny Ruddy.

Mx. Nillin is an AuDHD, queer, genderfaun, polyamorous, demisexual, award winning sexual wellness blogger, speaker, and author who also provides diversity training & inclusive sex education around the Canadian prairies.

Born and raised in small-town Saskatchewan, they have spent substantial time advocating for the rights and protections of trans, non-binary, and gender nonconforming people struggling to make ends meet in a decidedly conservative, “traditional family” leaning landscape. Much of their community work has been focused around improving trans people’s access to affirming medical services, advocating for inclusive sexual wellness supports, and challenging employment and housing discrimination.

Nillin’s written work has been featured around the world, both online and in print, including in the “BEDFELLOWS: Porn as Pedagogy” exhibit featured at the Tate Modern Museum of London in October of 2016.

Most recently, their blog was ranked 1st in Molly’s Daily Kiss’ Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2021!

Outside of blogging they are also an accomplished erotica writer and editor having had stories published in Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year volumes 4, 5, and 6, as well as the Big Book of Orgasms Volume 2, all from Cleis Press. Most recently they co-wrote Chapter 16 for the 2nd Edition of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, publishing soon from Oxford University Press. They then edited their first anthology, Heckin’ Lewd: Trans and Non-Binary Erotica, which released in June of 2022 from Bold Strokes Books.

Nillin is now hard at work writing their first solo book, How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Trans Queers, coming in 2024 from Thornapple Press.

For a introductory guide to the blog, including a list of most read posts and most active topic categories, check out the New Here? page.