Hey there folks, it’s your local loud-mouthed, cute as shit, queer-as-in-fuck-you, lewd, androbabe here!
My name’s Mx Nillin. I’m non-binary, pansexual, greyromantic, and polyamourous, and my pronouns are they/them/their.
I’ve been blogging for seven fucking years already (whoah, right?), and I’ve even won some awards and done some pretty cool stuff in my time on the internets. I live in the mostly heavily conservative and infuriatingly colonial province of Saskatchewan, Canada, for some damn reason, but I have awesome supports in my spouse, Fal, as well as my partners Raven, Verne, and Rowan.
You can read more about them and the dynamics we share on my Partners & Play Friends page!
I started this blog after coming out and being completely unable to find any content that reflected myself. No matter how much I looked, scouring search engines and forums, I just could not find much of any uplifting, empowering, visible, unapologetic content from non-binary people with a penis. I know that’s a pretty common feeling with us queer folks as, so I became hella determined to fill that gap. Even now, this blog is one of very few of its kind and honestly I would love to one day see a lot more because the sex blogging community could sure use a big boost in lewd gender fuckery and nonconformity!
Honestly, the best way to get to know me is to read the blog, In it, you’ll learn about my wants, needs, desires and fantasies. My triumphs and fuck ups. But I’ve gathered the most important posts here, if you really want to know what Mx Nillin is all about:
To learn more about my personal life, blogging history, experiences, relationships, and queerness, check out:
- After 7-Years (and Two Days) of Blogging
- Fucking Friends: Why I Need Ethical Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
- How I Learned to Let Go of the Hate and Love My Hairy Tits
- On Being Queer, Disowned, and the Struggles of Legal Name Changes While Fleeing Your Abusers
- How My Nesting Partner and I Moved From Non-Monogamous to Polyamorous
- Why I Post My Nudes Online
For a introductory guide to the blog, including a list of most read posts and most active topic categories, check out the New Here? page.
People With me On My Journey
It’s not all about me! I’m fortunate to have really amazing partners and great friends who I write about often as well:
Fal – My awesome nesting partner who I’ve been married to since 2014! They are queer and non-binary and super fucking rad. They have been with me every step of the way through the most important years of my life and I wouldn’t be where I am today without all of their love and support.
Raven – They are my queerplatonic partner and Kitten. When not indulging in our pet play, breeding/impregnation, and impact kinks, we spend our quality time together cooking, cuddling, and watching cheesy sci-fi shows. Raven loves it when I show their marks and bruises off here on the blog.
Verne – My partner, datefriend, and one of the best cuddlers ever! You’ll likely read a lot about how much I love sucking their dick (it’s so fucking good). Outside of the amazing sex and affection we share, Verne and I also enjoy playing games online together and do a lot to support each other’s creative passions.
Rowan – They were the first person that Fal and I ever experienced group sex and began to explore polyamory with, starting back in 2014. Over the years we’ve continued to foster a very strong bond as satellite partners, complete with great communication, supports, affection, emotional intimacy, and outstanding sex.
Toto – Fal’s longtime friend who I’ve become closer pals with these past few years! They’re one of the most positive, encouraging, and creative people I know. Sometimes we hang out semi-naked and take lewd pictures of each other.
[Read Toto’s blog at: Genydro Joined The Room]
Kate – She has been my best friend for going on 8-years and is a former partner of mine, so, she inspired a lot of content here on the blog for a while. Like Fal, Kate has been an integral part of my life and has supported me through a great deal of my coming out and journey to self-acceptance.
More Mx Nillin
Other than on my own blog, I’ve written for The Crash Pad Series, Molly’s Daily Kiss, and The Centre for Sexual Pleasure and Health. I also had an article of mine included in the BEDFELLOWS: Porn as Pedagogy Exhibit at the Tate Modern Museum of London in October 2016. Additionally, my work can be found featured in Elan Morgan’s Five Star Blog Round-Ups and monthly e[lust] sex blog digests.
Further, I made a guest appearance on The Dildorks podcast [hosted by Kate Sloan and Bex Caputo] to talk about my Mx Nillin Fucks series, was interviewed by Poly Role Models, and have actively participated in the Sex Educators Review Porn panel for Crash Pad Series since 2016.
If you like what you read here, please consider following me on Twitter as well.
Finally if you’d like to reach me, you can do so via one of the means listed on my Contact page.