Mx. Nillin is a queer, non-binary, polyamorous, aromantic, award winning sexual wellness blogger, speaker, and erotica author who also provides diversity training & inclusive sex education around the Canadian prairies.
Born and raised in small-town Saskatchewan, they have spent substantial time advocating for the rights and protections of trans, non-binary, and gender nonconforming people struggling to make ends meet in a decidedly conservative, “traditional family” leaning landscape. Much of their community work has been focused around improving trans people’s access to affirming medical services, advocating for inclusive sexual wellness supports, and challenging employment and housing discrimination.
Nillin’s written work has been featured around the world, both online and in print, including in the “BEDFELLOWS: Porn as Pedagogy” exhibit featured at the Tate Modern Museum of London in October of 2016.
Outside of blogging they are also a published erotica writer having had storied published in Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year volumes 4, 5, and 6, as well as the Big Book of Orgasms Volume 2, all from Cleis Press. Most recently they co-wrote Chapter 16 for the 2nd Edition of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, publishing Winter 2021 from Oxford University Press.
To learn more about my personal life, blogging history, experiences, relationships, and queerness, check out:
- After 7-Years (and Two Days) of Blogging
- Fucking Friends: Why I Need Ethical Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
- How I Learned to Let Go of the Hate and Love My Hairy Tits
- On Being Queer, Disowned, and the Struggles of Legal Name Changes While Fleeing Your Abusers
- Why I Post My Nudes Online
For a introductory guide to the blog, including a list of most read posts and most active topic categories, check out the New Here? page.
More Mx Nillin
Other than on my own blog, I’ve written for The Crash Pad Series, Molly’s Daily Kiss, and The Centre for Sexual Pleasure and Health. I also had an article of mine included in the BEDFELLOWS: Porn as Pedagogy Exhibit at the Tate Modern Museum of London in October 2016. Additionally, my work can be found featured in Elan Morgan’s Five Star Blog Round-Ups and monthly e[lust] sex blog digests.
Further, I made a guest appearance on The Dildorks podcast [hosted by Kate Sloan and Bex Caputo] to talk about my Mx Nillin Fucks series, was interviewed by Poly Role Models, and have actively participated in the Sex Educators Review Porn panel for Crash Pad Series since 2016.
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Finally if you’d like to reach me, you can do so via one of the means listed on my Contact page.