Welcome to Day 16 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 16 post here: “A Look of My Own“ It’s interesting to me that many of my closest, most fulfilling, most satisfying, and longest lasting friendships have all had one thing in common: they all involve some…
Tag: friendship
Shy Girls Club
Welcome to Day 11 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 11 post here: “With My Hands Full“ There’s something about wearing somebody else’s clothes that makes me feel supremely close to them in one way or another. Sometimes it can be incredibly intimate and loving, like…
That’s So Us
Welcome to Day 4 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 4 post here: “When I Wanted Tits” I fucking love the friendship I have with Toto. Long before the clothing optional mansion parties, that Fal and I now frequent on a monthly basis, Toto was actually…
Setting New Relationship Non-Negotiables After a Breakup
It has been quite a damn while since I’ve had to go through the depression and emotional work of a breakup, let alone set any new boundaries or relationship non-negotiables as part of moving on. Over six years in fact! This recent relationship that ended was my second longest overall, was technically my first ever…
Moving On When You Can’t Stop Holding On
I’m grieving, friends. And that’s a good thing because if I’m being honest here I haven’t really allowed myself to do that these past few weeks since Kate ended the polyamorous triad. I think that part of the difficulty is that we’re not treating it as a traditional breakup so much as a transition from…




