Welcome to Day 15 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 15 post here: “Getting Freaky Naughty” [NOTE: the following is an account of my own personal experiences with barrier free sex within very particular dynamics that I feel are safe, honest, and communicative. I am NOT…
Category: Non-Monogamy
When Last They Were Here
Welcome to Day 8 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 8 post here: “Little Spoon“ It has only been a couple of weeks and I already miss them. I don’t get to see them often, but when I do it’s always amazing. When last they were…
Setting New Relationship Non-Negotiables After a Breakup
It has been quite a damn while since I’ve had to go through the depression and emotional work of a breakup, let alone set any new boundaries or relationship non-negotiables as part of moving on. Over six years in fact! This recent relationship that ended was my second longest overall, was technically my first ever…
Happy To Provide
The last time I saw Rowan this past November we had an amazing time. We always do, really. Despite the fact that we don’t actually get to see each other an awful lot, when we we can visit one another it always feels like no time has passed at all between us. Luckily we didn’t…
Fucking Friends: Why I Need Ethical Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images.] It happened! I FINALLY got to meet my sex blogger bestie, Taylor J Mace, and it was hands down one of the best weekends ever for SO many reasons. I mean, I’ve had some great weekends with other friends too but never any that involved as much casual…