You’re going to see my fursonas around here a lot so I wanted to have a space where I could describe how each of them came into existence, and what they mean to me. Here’s everything you need to know about Snowfall, Earl Gray, Malbec, Tome, and Chapel!
Snowfall, the Queer Deer
My first ever fursona! Snowfall was always envisioned as an extension of myself as I was first openly, and authentically, exploring my sexuality and gender identity in the early 2010s. Because of this they’ve had a few different looks since then, often reflecting changes that were simultaneously happening for me in terms of my body and identity.
They are the daddy of the group. Snowfall’s natural charisma, calm demeanour, and soft queer inflection make them an extremely approachable individual. People tend to open up to them quickly as they find their presence so relaxing, safe, and respectable. Snowfall is extremely empathetic and considerate of the comfort of others. Their one major weakness is not always prioritizing their own needs and wants, instead focusing far too much on making others happy rather than looking after their own wellness and desires. They can be so accommodating, and say yes so often, that they burn out relatively often, resulting in periods of depression and isolation as they associate these “funks” with personal failure at being unable to meet the expectations they’ve put on themself.
Earl Gray, the Sad Boy Opossum
Ah my sad, sad boy, Earl Gray! Named after the tea, he is a reflection of the depression, anxiety, ADHD, and PTSD that I experience. Yet while these mental health conditions affect him, he does not see them as negatives all of the time. Despite his insecurities, traumas, shame, and fears, he still seeks out connections with others, tries to show himself patience and empathy, and recognizes that sadness does not significantly diminish his worth or make him a burden to others.
The teardrop markings under his eyes represents the depression he carries with him, as does the storm clouds and raid on his chest. He wears these aspects of himself proudly and chooses to live life making accommodations for himself and others as needed.
Malbec, the Edgy Collie
Malbec is a horny, horny boy. He’s crass, flirty, extremely forward, and always looking for a good time. If he’s around, everyone’s bound to be entertained and enlivened. Yet while he’s a hoot to chill with, remaining stagnant is absolute torture. He’s got no patience for sitting around, “vibing” is a punishment, and he requires near constant stimulation lest he become bored and irritable. Due to his need for constant excitement and pleasure, Malbec can be prone to very impulsive decisions and fall into hedonistic tendencies. Sex is grounding to him. He would probably benefit from a nice, affirming, supportive partner, and reliable friendships to help him keep his desires in balance with his life.
Malbec is a strong representation of my on sexual desires and attractions, both in positive and sometimes unhealthy ways. We both communicate and understand emotional intimacy through our sexuality, and feel most affirmed in sexual connections.
