Here I’ve been struggling to take good pictures of myself that make me feel sexy, and Fen just randomly captures these GREAT shots of my ass one morning. I swear, the most affirming and complimentary pictures of me are usually candids. I just need a crew constantly documenting all of the hot and adorable Nillin moments that happen throughout the day!
My new book, Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphobic and Queerphobic Baggage, just released this past Friday, March 20th, 2026, and is available at all major book retailers! You can also preorder my third book, Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity, which releases on November 6th, 2026.
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