2019 was a fuck of a year for a lot of us, it seems. It definitely has been for me at times too as I’ve experienced both huge successes and some pretty fucking rough personal strife. Namely, I’ve had a lot of gender struggles going on again, communication issues with those closest to me, shame…
My Bucket and Fucket Lists for the 2020s
As a very introspective and self-reflective person I tend to spend a lot of time musing on my relationships and friendships, as well as the needs, wants, boundaries, desires, and expectations that frame them. So, when I saw Molly Moore‘s recent post “Bucket, Fuck and Christmas Lists” It actually reminded me of how I used…
My First Hookup Fuck-up
Everyone’s got at least one bad hook-up story. Even I do! Kinda sucks though that mine happened to be one of the first times that I ever hooked up with somebody else. Let’s set the scene: it’s the summer of 2002, people haven’t figure out that Men In Black II sucks yet, The Sims is…
Moving On When You Can’t Stop Holding On
I’m grieving, friends. And that’s a good thing because if I’m being honest here I haven’t really allowed myself to do that these past few weeks since Kate ended the polyamorous triad. I think that part of the difficulty is that we’re not treating it as a traditional breakup so much as a transition from…
My Favourite Nudes and Lewds of 2019
It’s that time of year again when I look back and re-share all of my absolute favorite sexy, filthy, and messy as fuck NSFW lewds that I took of myself, or that were taken of me, over the course of the year. 2019 has been a challenging time for me personally and emotionally, so the…




