Silly is Sexy

Welcome to Day 21 of February Photofest 2019 on MxNillin.com

 

I almost didn’t post this because I thought it was a bit silly… which of course is EXACTLY why I never should have fucking hesitated in the first place!

Because here’s the thing: silly is sexy!

I used to get so wrapped up in worrying about all the clumsy, sluggish, embarrassing parts of sex that it sometimes actually made the whole act of it a bit stressful. I thought that sexy was serious, and if you weren’t being serious then you weren’t being sexy. It’d start outside of the bedroom too as I’d anxiously pour over how I looked, building up all this anxiety around my fear not being sexy enough, to the point of nearly ruining experiences, all in the pursuit of unrealistic aesthetic perfection.

It took me until my late 20s to realize how fucking exhausting that was. I mean, if you’re not having fun being sexy, if you’re so worried about not looking a little silly that you can’t fully enjoy yourself, then what’s the fucking point? You know? Do something ridiculous! Have a laugh! Think outside the box, embrace the farts, the giggles, the queefs, and sneezes. Fuck in your unicorn onesie, wear fuzzy bunny slippers while sucking cock, mutually masturbate with somebody in your sweaty work clothes, take those nudes you’re worried might be ridiculous and then send them off anyway!

Fuck it. Rock the imperfections and be goofy as fuck.

Besides, Toto spent a solid hour crocheting that yarn harness onto my chess and I fucking owe it to them to post this because it’s really cute!

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