One of the things I’ve always said to everyone who has ever appeared on the blog with me, including partners, friends, lovers, and even exes, is that should they ever decide they don’t want to be on here anymore, be that days, weeks, months, or even years from now, I will absolutely 100% respect those…
Tag: consent
Setting New Relationship Non-Negotiables After a Breakup
It has been quite a damn while since I’ve had to go through the depression and emotional work of a breakup, let alone set any new boundaries or relationship non-negotiables as part of moving on. Over six years in fact! This recent relationship that ended was my second longest overall, was technically my first ever…
Taking Rejection Online ft. Optical Love Story
You know what fucking sucks? Rejection. Or more specifically, the response most folks seem to have when taking rejection online. A post from Optical Love Story this past May got me thinking about that a lot after reading through her experience with a long lost friend being a fucking dick after she turned down his…
Respecting the Personal Boundaries of Others Online ft. Punkin
[NOTE: all posts this month end with an ethical cum tribute.] Explaining boundaries to people online is REALLY fucking difficult. For some reason people can mostly understand it in person, when it comes to shit like don’t caress a stranger’s back on the elevator in between floors while humming along to a monotone version of…
Let’s Talk About Unsolicited & Public Dick Pics ft. Pitch
[NOTE: all posts this month end with an ethical cum tribute.] Sup y’all! Okay, so, today we’re talking about penises. But not all penises, mainly just the penises that nobody fucking asked to see…. you know? The penises that show up in your goddamn [insert social media platform] instant message inbox, or your email, or…