One of the things I’ve always said to everyone who has ever appeared on the blog with me, including partners, friends, lovers, and even exes, is that should they ever decide they don’t want to be on here anymore, be that days, weeks, months, or even years from now, I will absolutely 100% respect those…
It has been quite a damn while since I’ve had to go through the depression and emotional work of a breakup, let alone set any new boundaries or relationship non-negotiables as part of moving on. Over six years in fact! This recent relationship that ended was my second longest overall, was technically my first ever…
Welcome to Blogger Love Language Month! A new event designed to encourage bloggers, sex workers, podcasters, toymakers, and other adult content makers, to express their communication needs, wants, comforts, and boundaries to their peers and fans/readers, as well as describe how they would feel most comfortable having their work interacted with. The general idea comes…
My partner Fal LOVES having their butt touched. In fact, it’s one of their most requested things of me in any given week. When I asked them why they request so many butt grabs and rubs they just kind of gave me this affronted look at said “because it fucking feels good and sometimes I…
You know what fucking sucks? Rejection. Or more specifically, the response most folks seem to have when taking rejection online. A post from Optical Love Story this past May got me thinking about that a lot after reading through her experience with a long lost friend being a fucking dick after she turned down his…