While I’ve thought a LOT about my sexual orientation and gender over the years, romantic orientation was never really something I actually put much thought or consideration into as a part of my identity until recently. For most of my life I just assumed that everybody ultimately wanted a romantic relationships with romantic partners and…
Tag: friendship
Happy Birthday, Goddess Sarah!
Dear Sarah, I know that this year has been really hard, like really shit, and that you’ve been missing your friends and lovers a lot. We’ve missed you too! Like SO fucking much! I have legit found it extremely hard not being able to see you at all for nearly a year now and I…
Still Worshiping the Goddess
Holy fuck do I miss my cuddle pals, friendships with benefits, casual orgasms with buddies, and sex parties, y’all… It doesn’t help that this time last year I had just come back from a Christmas orgy with a bunch of cute queers and I was well on my way to planning a full-blown goddess worship…
Dear Nikki: Vivid Sex Dreams About My Old Friend
You know, I’ve never really fully appreciated how lucky I am to have the ability to remember my dreams so vividly, but every so often I have a sex dream so fucking hot that I end up telling somebody about and they are always surprised about the level of detail I can recall. Most recently…
All the Sex to Come
NOTE: Due to some major issues of transphobia within the sex blogging community, and an overwhelming amount of misgendering happening to myself and other trans and gender nonconforming bloggers, I unfortunately feel the need to once again clearly state my gender and pronouns at the beginning of every single post I make for the foreseeable…




