Cisnormativity in blogging has always been a deeply alienating and invalidating issue that trans bloggers and readers have to regularly face. Perhaps one of those most prominent ways it manifests in these spaces is through the marketing of sex toys, and the reviews written about them. Just as it is a needlessly exclusionary marketing choice…
Times have been tough, friends! Before we get to the gay shirts let’s go over the blah stuff. I’ve been feeling incredibly overwhelmed as of late due to just a lot of stuff happening in my personal life and as a result blogging, or writing at all, has just become something that takes a tremendous…
For most of my early transition after coming out I felt pretty trapped. As soon as I had revealed that I might be trans I found myself bombarded with unprompted advice and guidance on how I could start “passing” as a woman, despite the fact that I had never explicitly stated that I perceived myself…
I know that content has been kinda slow around here as of late. I’ve been going through some burnout from having to deal with the aftermath of calling out transphobia in sex blogging over the last month, but I was going through a whole bunch of photos from my various cell phones over the years…
Welcome to Day 20 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 20 post here: “That Ass Though” Just kidding, I totally care. Honestly, my bright, loud, super gay side-cut hair is hands down one of the most consistently queer affirming things about my appearance for me. Sadly,…