It feels like “Nillin” has barely had a chance to fully exist yet, and then I blink, and suddenly I’m already 40! I guess it makes sense. I only really came out as queer and trans in the early 2010s, at which point I was 26 and practically vibrating with gay need. But that’s what’s…
Tag: non-monogamy
Multiplayer
Nothing beats casual, social nudity among friends! Except maybe teasing yourself and masturbating while they play Mario Kart, each trying not to get too distracted as they glance over at you stroking your cock. Then when they’re done your partner sucks you off in front of everyone while they excitedly watch you cover your tummy…
Phone and Bone
We haven’t gotten to see each other due to the weather, and him being a University student, since he sucked me off in the parking lot of an evangelical church for an hour last fall. So waiting for better weather and more opportunity, we’ve focused a lot at sexting and sending each other nudes. Each…
My Favourite Nudes & Lewds of 2025
Y’all, this is the first time in decades that I’m nearing the end of December and I’m “damn, what a great fucking year!” 2025 saw me not only writing another book, but two more in Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphbobic and Queerphobic Baggage, and, Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity, with Thornapple Press. Both come out…
Wanting
Sometimes I get these really strong desires for a copious amount of chill, no-strings-attached sex. I hyper fixate on it, thinking it’s all I need for days at a time. It would be easy then to hop in a car with some random boy and jerk off together, or suck each other off, then part…




