Welcome to 2026, friends! I hope everyone had a good holiday season.
I’m so fucking excited to finally share this nude sketch of me from Marye Coffe that I’ve been sitting on for a few weeks now! I knew she was amazing at more than just furry art, but this still managed to completely blow me away. It is hands down one of the most beautiful, affirming, empowering, and sexy images of myself that I’ve ever seen and I’m absolutely thrilled for it to be the first post of the new year.
She captured me so, so perfectly! My belly, chest, body hair, eyes, beard, nose, smile, everything is just so wonderfully represented. I look so fucking pretty! And hot! This is exactly the kind of body positivity and affirmations that I need a heck of a lot more of as I get closer to turning 40 this summer.



Like always, please be sure to check our Marye’s art channel on Telegram and commission her if you have the chance! You won’t regret it!
And please don’t forget that my next book, Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphobic and Queerphobic Baggage, is available for preorder! It comes out on March 20th, 2026. You can also preorder my third book, Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity, which releases November 6th, 2026.
If you’d like to support my 2SLGBTQ+ based writing, advocacy, and education work please consider leaving me a tip on Ko-Fi!
