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Category: Polyamory
Non-Monogamy Is Really Important to Me
I’ve been wanting to write this post for a quite while, but have put it off because I was worried it might feel, or even just seem like, I’m trying to justify myself as a non-monogamous person vs celebrating it. That’s what I want to do here, celebrate my nonmonogamy while providing insight into my…
Setting My Non-Negotiable Relationship Boundaries
Generally speaking boundaries come in two core forms for me: those that guide me, but are open to growth and adjustment along my journey, and those which are absolutely essential exactly as they are, their existence being crucial to my feeling emotionally, physically, psychologically, and possibly even financially, safe. Those latter ones are your non-negotiables,…
How My Relationship Needs Have Evolved Over the Pandemic
I’ve been thinking an awful lot about my needs and wants when it comes to relationships lately. In early 2021, shortly after the big parts of the pandemic lockdown were starting to lift, I was in a pretty chaotic state of being. Following months of emotional turmoil, gaslighting, arguments, manipulation, intimidation, and yelling, all culminating…
I’m Not Okay: Fear and Self-Loathing in 2023
CW: discussion of abuse, SA, severe mental health struggles, depression, negative self-talk, etc. Okay, I think it’s time to talk about my insecurities and anxieties more because I feel like they’re at an all-time high. Or low? I dunno, whichever. Basically, I feel like shit about myself and just, like, not confident at all. I…