He messages me that he’s wet, hard, and horny. That he wants me to use him like the good little fucktoy that he is. My new fucktoy, if I want him to be. And I do. He wants me to ravage all of his holes. His mouth, his ass, his cunt. He wants me to…
Category: Queer & Trans
The Aftershocks of Toxic Masculinity
So, I recently blogged about impotence and sexual dysfunction, and while I’m really happy with how the piece turned out overall I did want to explore it on a more personal level than that last write up really allowed for. Because impotence and performance anxiety struggles, for me at least, are really complicated things deeply…
I’m Aromantic and Here’s What Love Means to Me
While I’ve thought a LOT about my sexual orientation and gender over the years, romantic orientation was never really something I actually put much thought or consideration into as a part of my identity until recently. For most of my life I just assumed that everybody ultimately wanted a romantic relationships with romantic partners and…
OnlyFans Review: Miss Ivy
With vaccinations on the horizon for many Canadians, and the prospect of getting to see my friends and lovers again becoming a very real reality, I’ve been reflecting a lot on the folks who’ve helped me through my particularly horny isolation over the last year: all of the awesome sex workers of Twitter and OnlyFans!…
Pitching A Tent
In the past I’ve talked a LOT about how as a non-binary trans person I felt a great deal of pressure early on to “pass” as femme and part of those expectations projected onto me was the assumption that I didn’t like my penis. For a while I bought into that notion and used to…