Welcome to Day 6 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery.
Read 2019’s Day 6 post here: “The Ultimate ‘Fuck You’“
One of my biggest blogging regrets of last year was not writing about Pandemonium in the Prairies when I went to it last May.
It was this totally fucking awesome little BDSM event hosted out on some really great farmland property in Saskatchewan where attendees were able to sit in on kink theme workshops and then, in the evening, participate in one of two active play dungeons, one of which happened in an old church.
It was one of my first times at an event like that and it was fucking great!
I was there serving as the Consent Liaison, somebody available to chat with participants if they needed some emotional support or help navigating any potential boundary violations, which meant that I couldn’t participate in any of the play events, but it I was able to walk around the space and observe things. It was pretty eye opening really. I got to talk to a lot of people about kinks and fetishes I never even knew about.
At one point in time, probably the highlight of my whole experience there, one of the dungeon masters, known as Bearanoid (fucking amazing name right!?), who I’d been chatting with throughout the weekend offered me a seat in the play space in an old wooden school chair where I sat and watched several scenes play out. It was there that I finally got a grasp of just how diverse BDSM play can be.
For example, over the course of just a couple hours I observed:
– somebody get absolutely covered in lube and massaged by 8 of their friends at once,
– a person stand upright and get bound with streamers like a maypole,
– somebody bound to a St. Andrew’s Cross holler in pain from being roughly, but safely, whipped and caned,
– a quiet, shy couple tenderly caress each other, whispering dirty things into each other’s ears, while making out together in the middle of the room,
– somebody getting raked on the back with a metal claw,
– and a whole bunch of other little scenes including a medical one complete with needle play.
On top of that, the whole area was clothing optional so I was able to enjoy some really great, affirming, body positive casual nudism. I mean, I wasn’t naked, cause of the whole Consent Liaison thing, but being around other people engaged in ethical, social nudism was super empowering.
Anyway, this adorable selfie, probably one of the best I took all 2019, was snapped on Day 2 during a quiet moment I got before the sun started to set and evening shenanigans began. It was one of VERY few times I’ve ever been able to wear my kitten play gear outside my home and being able to do so in a judgment free area was incredible. I felt pretty as fuck.
And with that, I FINALLY got to blog about Pandemonium in the Prairies. Fucking booya!
Have you ever been to a BDSM or kink play event? What were your experiences like?
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Wait wait wait. There is a thing that happens near me that I’ve never heard of!! Nothing happens out here and then I find out about this!!
Gasp! Wait… are we near-ish neighbors?? This is close to you too?
You look so very cute here! I have been to quite a few kink events in the Vancouver area and they were all very inclusive and exciting.
I’m really glad to hear that there are inclusive events in your area! It has, unsurprisingly, been a little more challenging finding them in the prairie provinces. Even the “big” ones, like Taboo, are extraordinarily cisnormative, heteronormative, and actually super vanilla and all about selling toys really lol. Which is, like, cool, but I hope we get kinkier stuff like Pandemonium more often in the future.
Your hair and those ears match so well together! The ears literally look as if they could be a part of you and it looks so cute. I like how the pink of the inside of the ears also matches your shirt. The event you went to sounds really awesome. It’s really cool you got to sit and watch and I’m glad you’re sharing the different things you saw with us as I also didn’t really think about how varied it can be
You look fucking adorable in those kitten ears….. Also BDSM/kink events rocks, especially if there is space for people to sit and watch. I love playing but I love watching too. Some of them are not really set up for that as the play room can often be crowded with no extra seating but the ones that are, are definitely my favourite venues/events
Molly
This sounds like an amazing event and I’m glad you shared it. I adore your kitten gear and I’m happy it made you feel pretty. 😊
Thank you so much! Still always looking for any opportunity to wear them lol
Sometimes when I go to kink events I’m so immersed in them I couldn’t tell you what anyone else was up to, but sometimes I’ve been and I’ve just enjoyed the opportunity to watch fellow kinksters at play and it always gives me such good feels. Sometimes it’s the cute, adorable scenes that wow me, other times the intense, more extreme kinks at work that make me go ooh, but no matter where things fall on the scale watching people enjoy themselves and embrace their desires is always awesome. It sounds like you had an amazing time and I’m glad you finally got to write about it 🙂
Thank you so much Floss! It really was an amazing time and I’m really glad I got the post out too. Reading your comment reminded me of why attending was so empowering and enriching for me too, thank you for sharing your experience as well