I’ve been seeing a lot of discussion lately in my various social circles about what it means to be t4t. If you’re unfamiliar with the term, t4t stands for “trans for trans,” which, as you can imagine, describes a trans person who is mostly, if not solely, interested in connections with other trans people. This…
Tag: gender feels
I’m Sad That I Never Got to Be a Femboy
Ten years ago (as of next month), at the age of 27, I started coming out. It’s hard trying to move forward and grow when so much of your life has been spent denying yourself happiness. While it’s always good to finally break free from toxic patterns, to prioritize your needs, wants, desires, and wellness…
Feeling Up
I’m sorry that content has been slow around here lately folks. There are a bunch of reasons for this, but the main one is that a few weeks ago my site went down after a botched WordPress update, which I wasn’t able to fix on my own, and that also lead to the blog getting…
Sexy Fat Queer Energy
It’s a good thing that Fen insists on taking pictures of me all of the time, because if they didn’t then I’d probably never post stuff like this of myself. I have a lot of very hard feels about my weight, especially my stomach. It makes me feel incredible insecure and unattractive, but that’s exactly …
Piercings: How Affirming Social Transition Looks for Me
I’ve always felt a little weird about my transition, like there wasn’t really much that I could do to address the dysphoria that I experience because its almost always socially based, and only very rarely based around my genitals and body. Despite the more physical gender feelings, I generally do not want any form of…




