CW: this post contains descriptions of queerphobic harassment and abuseĀ I am a fat, stocky, non-cis-passing queer with a hot pink side-cut, hairy tits, and varying degrees of stubble on my face. Needless to say, clothes shopping for me can be a real shit-show. Fact is that no matter what store I go to, or…
Tag: gender feels
6 Songs That Lifted Me Up as a Closeted Queer
CN: mention of alcohol abuse, mental health struggles My nesting partner, Falon, and I moved not too long ago, and in that process I came across something that walloped me right in the fucking feels: my old iPod. On it was all of the music that I listened to throughout my late teens, and well…
The Importance of Feeling Safe
Holy shit, y’all! For the first time in 4-years, my partner, Falon, and I have gone a FULL MONTH [that’s over 4-weeks] without experiencing any form of transphobic or queerphobic street harassment of any kind. It is fucking glorious! For those of you who have been reading the blog for a while, you may have…
Some Feels on Weight Gain, Dysphoria, and Passing Pressure
[CW: one NSFW image and talk of dysphoria, depression, and thoughts of self-harm] After coming out as queer and trans in late 2013, following years of struggling with my identity in secret, I was in the best shape of my adult life. Just over two-years prior I was at 225 lbs, chain smoking, binge eating…



