One of my biggest non-monogamy needs has always been to have casual jerk off pals. I love the idea of getting picked up late night by a cute queer boy or enby, sitting in the passenger seat where I start to playfully touch and stroke myself under my skirt, making small talk as I’m driven…
Tag: masturbation
Healing In Pleasure
CW: mention of sexual assault and non-consensual sex. I’ve been in a hard place, y’all. The other week I found myself in a situation where my boundaries were pushed and violated a great deal through some non-consensual acts, and I’ve been going through a lot of big emotions around it all since then. I don’t…
Feeling Up
I’m sorry that content has been slow around here lately folks. There are a bunch of reasons for this, but the main one is that a few weeks ago my site went down after a botched WordPress update, which I wasn’t able to fix on my own, and that also lead to the blog getting…
My 2023 Fucket List
Wow, it has been a while since I’ve done one of these. Two years, in fact! When I used to do them I think I took them a little too literally. When I didn’t end up experiencing as much of my fucket lists as I’d hoped I’d feel pretty bummed out about it, like I…
How Many People Have I Had Sex With?
A couple of months ago, with just under two-weeks until the start of February Photofest 2023, Molly Moore made a post that peaked my interest in a big way because of how self-reflective it was. In it, she asked herself the big questions: What is sex? How many people has she had sex with? Does…




