Alright friends and followers! I have to get a bit real here for a moment because today is a really important, and heavy, day for trans, genderqueer, enby, and gender diverse folk. Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance; a time for our community to mourn and pay respect to those of us who were murdered…
Tag: my transition
Panty Shopping Tips for People With a Penis Who Don’t Tuck
Personally, I refuse to tuck. Like, ever. It’s uncomfortable, it’s hot, feels terrible, makes my balls sweaty and tender, and it’s awful and I hate it. But I’m not even dysphoric about my girl cock in the first place. In fact, I love my girl cock. I WORSHIP my girl cock and it will stay…
When EVERY day is “Coming Out Day”
So, it’s National Coming Out Day and everybody is sharing their coming out stories and celebrating being out with friends, family, and followers on social media. Which is all good, of course, but the day is not without it’s privileges. While quite a few people are out and living their lives to the best of…
Some Feels on Weight Gain, Dysphoria, and Passing Pressure
[CW: one NSFW image and talk of dysphoria, depression, and thoughts of self-harm] After coming out as queer and trans in late 2013, following years of struggling with my identity in secret, I was in the best shape of my adult life. Just over two-years prior I was at 225 lbs, chain smoking, binge eating…
Bathrooms and Being Non-Binary
Here I am on an average Monday. My hair is all messy, pulled back into pigtails, and I have visible stubble on my face because I haven’t shaved for 2-days. I am well aware that I do not “pass”. Even I acknowledge that while I am quite femme in how I dress, I by no…




