When you’ve had to operate emotionally at a 10 for so long, it’s hard accepting that you’re safe enough to relax and not operate in survival mode. I made a lot of really big mistakes last year while in an activated state that I really regret. Mistakes that almost cost me one of the most…
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2024 Foreword INDIES Book of the Year Finalist
I’m thrilled to share that my first book, “How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers,” is a 2024 Foreword INDIES Book of the Year Finalist for LGBTQ+ Adult Nonfiction! I wrote “How Do I Sexy?” between Summer 2022 and Fall 2023. It essentially serves as a physical copy of all my…
I Asked Former Partners, Play Friends, and Hookups to Give Me Feedback
If you haven’t checked it out yet, you should go and read the bold and interesting post that Girl on the Net (follow her on Bluesky) put up this week. It was originally posted on a site that she used to write for, but sadly is gone now. Fortunately, many of her pieces survived in…
Ever Changing Pleasures
It still hasn’t fully sunk in yet for me that I’m actually on HRT. This past September I made the trek from Saskatoon to Moose Jaw to finally talk with a doctor about the possibility of taking steps toward some degree for medical transition. I knew that I didn’t want any bottom or top surgery,…
Like It Was Yesterday; My Comet Partner
Sometimes things don’t line up when you really want them to. Like when a girl you like a whole lot isn’t in the right place to have an intimate connection with you, and then when she is you’re not in a place to have one with her. And then she moves over four-thousand kilometres away…