Those that know me well know that I’m a deeply self-reflective person who, perhaps a bit obsessively, looks inward a great deal when making any conceivably big life decision, or if I just find myself feeling a lot in general. This was especially the case over the last year as I navigated becoming separated from…
If I’m being completely honest, having “my own” kids has never really truly been a need or want of mine. Years ago I had talked about it with my ex-spouse some and agreed to try, mostly because they really wanted to raise children of their own, but it never happened for us and I just…
One of the major things I speak about before I start dating anyone nowadays is that as an aromantic, polyamorous, enby I’m generally not on the relationship escalator of life and have no intention of hopping onto it anytime soon. That means the for me, things like getting married again, entering into any form of…
I’ve put off talking about my separation for a lot of reasons I think. I mean, it just fucking sucks, right? A relationship ending, especially a long-term one, isn’t a great experience at the best of times but throw in the fact that there were also massive boundary breaches along the way, a tremendous breakdown…
It’s a weird state to be in when you’re both simultaneous fucking rocking it, and yet also struggling with so much imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and bad body feels that it’s keeping you from fully enjoying the potential of your life. Cause that’s exactly where I’m at right now. On one hand, there’s so, so much…