Not too long ago I wrote about how I experienced “love” as an aromantic queer, and as part of the discussion that arose with friends and peers afterward I was often asked about whether or not I had ever had a crush on somebody or not. And like, yeah, just not in the way that…
Author: MxNillin
Besties With Benefits
I’m pretty stoked y’all! Despite how challenging the last while has been, and how extra difficult life felt with not being able to see my partners, friends, lovers, and community in the ways that I’d really like to, things have been really starting to come together a bit more as of late. Not only do…
Beach Gay
I used to avoid any and all pools and beaches as much as I possibly could because I’ve never felt comfortable with my body, or with any of the bathing suits I ever owned. For some reason I’ve always felt more vulnerable in a bathing suit than I ever have in any lingerie or even…
I’m Not Strong and Here’s Why It’s Transphobic to Assume That I Am
And by me being not strong, I mean physically. When it comes to my emotional intelligence, my perseverance in the face of seeming insurmountable queerphobia, and my ability to face great adversity in my pursuit of bettering myself and my community, I’m a fucking beast, yo. But those aren’t the strengths I’m expected to have….
What Comes After
Woo! Guess what y’all!? This slut’s officially got their first vaccination shot and I’m so fucking excited to, hopefully, start seeing my partners, friends, lovers, and community more over the coming months. I even drove an hour-and-a-half to North Battleford in order to get mine, and it was so fucking worth it. Here’s hoping the…




