It has been quite a damn while since I’ve had to go through the depression and emotional work of a breakup, let alone set any new boundaries or relationship non-negotiables as part of moving on. Over six years in fact! This recent relationship that ended was my second longest overall, was technically my first ever…
Author: MxNillin
Happy To Provide
The last time I saw Rowan this past November we had an amazing time. We always do, really. Despite the fact that we don’t actually get to see each other an awful lot, when we we can visit one another it always feels like no time has passed at all between us. Luckily we didn’t…
Beginning of the Decade Nudes vs End of the Decade Lewds
Yeah, so, I know it’s already halfway through January but when have I ever fucking memed memes when they were popular and relevant? NEVER! That’s when. I do what I want. Anyway, I’m sure a lot of you have seen those “beginning of decade vs end of decade” photo comparisons that basically everybody on the…
6 Queer & Trans Sex Bloggers Who Impacted My 2019
2019 was a fuck of a year for a lot of us, it seems. It definitely has been for me at times too as I’ve experienced both huge successes and some pretty fucking rough personal strife. Namely, I’ve had a lot of gender struggles going on again, communication issues with those closest to me, shame…
My Bucket and Fucket Lists for the 2020s
As a very introspective and self-reflective person I tend to spend a lot of time musing on my relationships and friendships, as well as the needs, wants, boundaries, desires, and expectations that frame them. So, when I saw Molly Moore‘s recent post “Bucket, Fuck and Christmas Lists” It actually reminded me of how I used…




