Nobody said this was gonna be easy, but I didn’t think that it would be this hard either. I’m on a bunch of dating apps, matching with people here and there, but they’re all widely dead ends. Missed connections, conflicting schedules, drops in conversation, a lack of energy on both sides, it’s all contributed to…
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When Polyamory and Non-monogamy Gets Hard; Unpacking Big Feelings and Re-Centring Yourself
Content note: mention of sexual assault. For the last decade I’ve been polyamorous and in non-monogamous relationships. Overall I can confidently say that I’ve felt pretty good about it, and it’s had a positive impact on my life. I’ve met some really amazing people and had a lot of profoundly memorable experiences with them. It…
Wholesome Gay Coffee Dates
I’ve been having some coffee dates with a new person this past month and y’all, it’s been pretty great. They’re so cute and I’ve had a crush on them for quite a while, but we just kinda circled each other online and in our local polyam and LGBTQ community up until now. Building this new…
Uninspired
I’ve been having a lot of trouble keeping up with writing on the blog lately and it’s been bumming me out a little. Not that this is super uncommon. My motivation and excitement can kind of come and go in waves depending on what else is going on in my life, but January is usually…
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Just some soft cock from a soft boi with big emotions and fears who just wants to feel happy, confident, and comfortable in themself again. Also, soft cock is good cock and deserves more appreciation!