I’ve put off talking about my separation for a lot of reasons I think. I mean, it just fucking sucks, right? A relationship ending, especially a long-term one, isn’t a great experience at the best of times but throw in the fact that there were also massive boundary breaches along the way, a tremendous breakdown…
Okay, so, first things first: going on hookup apps as a nonbinary person fucking sucks. It just does, okay? If you’re not getting creepily fetishized and love bombed by randos then you’re getting misgendered and told you’re not real, a joke, confused, or “just wanting attention”, etc. It’s kinda a huge fucking buzzkill. Yet, I…
It’s a weird state to be in when you’re both simultaneous fucking rocking it, and yet also struggling with so much imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and bad body feels that it’s keeping you from fully enjoying the potential of your life. Cause that’s exactly where I’m at right now. On one hand, there’s so, so much…
Hi! I turned 35 a couple of days ago on Wednesday! For some, that’s a big cause for celebration but unfortunately I always get really, really fucking sad on my birthdays for some reason. Not 100% sure why but it’s a consistent enough thing for me that I often also see a pretty big drop…
I used to avoid any and all pools and beaches as much as I possibly could because I’ve never felt comfortable with my body, or with any of the bathing suits I ever owned. For some reason I’ve always felt more vulnerable in a bathing suit than I ever have in any lingerie or even…