CW: discussion of abuse, SA, severe mental health struggles, depression, negative self-talk, etc. Okay, I think it’s time to talk about my insecurities and anxieties more because I feel like they’re at an all-time high. Or low? I dunno, whichever. Basically, I feel like shit about myself and just, like, not confident at all. I…
You might think that because I talk a lot about sex here, and horny post on the regular, that I must not do it a lot with my friends or on my personal social media… but you’d be wrong! Truth is that sex, pleasure, masturbation, flirting, sexting, and playing with sex toys, are as much…
It’s been known to my polycule, friends, and most of my peers, for a few months now but I realized that I never officially announced my engagement to Fenric here on the blog! Fenric actually proposed to me this past August during a particularly cute date day at the zoo, where xe popped the question…
Like with every other period of personal change, I tend to enter into pretty extensive self-reflective mode for a while after emotional upheaval occurs and a huge part of that often includes thinking about my sexual, emotional, romantic, and relationship needs and wants. In the past that’s led to me contemplating major moves (be it…
I’ve been learning an awful lot about myself over the past few months, reaching all the way back to my youth, and chiefly among these revelations has been that I’m autistic and have ADHD. It honestly explains an awful lot, from my hyper-fixations on new favourite things (be it roller derby through the early 2010s,…