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Category: Let’s Get Personal!
Non-Monogamy Is Really Important to Me
I’ve been wanting to write this post for a quite while, but have put it off because I was worried it might feel, or even just seem like, I’m trying to justify myself as a non-monogamous person vs celebrating it. That’s what I want to do here, celebrate my nonmonogamy while providing insight into my…
Existential Dread, Dating, and Finding New Connections as a Millennial Trans Queer
Turning 37 has come with a lot more big feelings than I’d thought it would. I mean, what even is 37? I hadn’t even considered that this was an age I could be until it was here. It’s not turning 40, entering that part of existence considered your “mid-life”. It’s not even turning 35, when…
I’m Sad That I Never Got to Be a Femboy
Ten years ago (as of next month), at the age of 27, I started coming out. It’s hard trying to move forward and grow when so much of your life has been spent denying yourself happiness. While it’s always good to finally break free from toxic patterns, to prioritize your needs, wants, desires, and wellness…
Healing In Pleasure
CW: mention of sexual assault and non-consensual sex. I’ve been in a hard place, y’all. The other week I found myself in a situation where my boundaries were pushed and violated a great deal through some non-consensual acts, and I’ve been going through a lot of big emotions around it all since then. I don’t…




