Well hey there sports fans! Wait, that’s not fucking right… what the fuck am I doing again? Oh right, that’s it! It’s May so I’m cumming all over print outs of lewd pictures sent to me by friends and peers, then posting photographic evidence of the beautiful messes. For those unfamiliar with this act, it’s called a “cum tribute” (aka a “sop”) and the general concept is that somebody pleasures themself to, then ejaculates on, a still image of a person they find attractive.
What a fun thing to do, right?!
Right! But you know what isn’t fun? Doing a cum tribute to somebody and then posting a picture of said cum tribute featuring that individual without their knowledge or consent. Not fucking cool. And yet, it happens ALL the time…
You wouldn’t believe how many videos there are on tube sites of people cumming on images of celebrities, their exes, friends, coworkers, complete fucking strangers, or even their own damn family members (or so they say), all likely without any of those people knowing that there are these sexually explicit videos featuring their likeness out there.
This is often further evidenced by the fact that most of the pictures tributed are clearly just pulled off of somebody’s Facebook page.
That, my friends, is NOT ethical. It is NOT consensual. And I’m confident in saying that the folks featured in those videos would probably be really fucking upset if they ever saw them.
Now I know that I’m not actually going to stop anyone from jerking off onto pictures of people if they really want, but I do hope to discourage you from actually uploading any imagery of you doing it (unless it’s a consensual act where both parties involved are in the know). Instead, I want to show you how you can enjoy doing cum tributes ethically!
At the end of March I put a tweet out asking if there were any folks who would participate in cum tributes for the blog and, to my pleasant surprise, there were quite a few takers! The general plan was to just put it out there, see who might be interested, and if anyone was up for it to then navigate discussion with them around how they’d feel most comfortable participating. I was thinking that I’d get maybe 1 or 2 people in total… nope! I’ve now had 9 individuals who’ve message me with enthusiastic consent about me doing a cum tribute to them!
Yay! The best part about it too is that THEY got to chose what photo I used. It was also 100% up to them how they wanted to be referred to in these posts, and if they ever change their minds all they need do is message me and I’d take down their image. Because folks, and I can’t stress this enough, consent can be revoked at any time and it’s important to respect that.
So there it is! It really is that easy to ask folks!
Be it on your Twitter, or on a reddit forum dedicated to ethical and consensual cum tributes (you should REALLY check that out), you can do them too with willing and excited participants!
Now, without further ado, here is the FIRST OF SEVERAL cum tributes for the blog this month, this one featuring the absolutely mesmerizing Leona de Sex Nerd, aka The Sex Ed Student, formally Leona de Lioness, who you should fucking follow right now because she’s badass and sexy as fuck!
Both Leona and I thoroughly discussed our comforts, boundaries, and wants regarding this tribute well before it was done, and she retains the right to revoke consent at ANY time should she not want these images of her out there any longer, at which time they will be removed.
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11 thoughts on “An Intro to Ethical Cum Tributes ft. Leona de Sex Nerd”
Well, I am someone who loves when people masturbate to her pictures and I have been asked if I want to participate in a cum tribute (on Fetlife) and was totally up for it! I love the idea of someone getting off to a picture of me! I love how you stress the consent part, I find that very important because even though there is no touching each other, it is still a sexual act!
Oh I do love a good cum tribute. Discovered it years ago in a chatroom when one guy suggested it to me and I thought why not. I actually ended up on the phone with him listening to him come. It was hot as was the image at he sent me. I have done it with another lover since and it was insanely hot.
Holy fuck, okay yeah that sounds REALLY hot! I love the added experience of listening to him over the phone actually doing it for you. Doing it for partners, lovers, friends, and peers this month has been really exciting. I’m especially enjoying the reactions folks have to the vid clips I send because I’ve always been really proud of how much ejaculate and semen I produce for cumshots LOL.
Anyway, thank you for reading, commenting, and sharing your experiences as well! Have you ever written a short erotica about that chatroom/phone tribute you had years ago? Cause that would make a GREAT read.
No, but noted and I will ponder it.
How does the guy do it does he need two media devices so you can see his dick ejaculating on the pic of the person he’s jerking to. What are the steps to do it
Exactly! I’m happy if even just ONE person who was doing them like that before reads this and starts tributing more ethically.
This is interesting. I have never heard of this- but I really appreciate the way you emphasized the consent of the whole thing. Thank you!
I’m glad that the first you’re hearing of it is this way then! Thank you for reading!
The cum tribute is a new concept to me, but I find it abhorrent (and unsurprising) that anyone would do this without concent. You have gone about this the perfect way, and I love the idea! This image was perfect for it, too! Looks like she is sitting right there just waiting for your load to shoot.
Yeah it’s chilling when you realize that the pictures those anonymous men are ejaculating onto, then uploading video of online, are very clearly just taken from somebody’s Facebook page or LinkedIn account without them knowing. Fucking shudder… ugh.
I’m glad you love the ethical way of doing it though! It can be a really fun form of sexting too. But yeah when Leona sent this pic I was thrilled because I thought the same thing. Ngl the expression helped a lot. I mean, hot damn! Right?