Welcome to Day 7 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery.
Read 2019’s Day 7 post here: “What Even Is ‘Sexy’?”
Showers are my safe space. Definitely my go to for self-care, which is weird because I don’t often do a lot of grooming or washing in them per say. Mostly I just stand in them and cry, or self-reflect and unpack my emotional baggage.
I jerk off in there a lot too, obviously! If I’m lucky, I might get to fuck somebody sometimes as well and in recent years I’ve grown really fond of shower sex and mutual masturbation.
Generally though, whenever I’m sad, anxious, sick, sore, or otherwise depressed it’s the first place I think of going to de-stress and even if it’s for no purpose whatsoever but to sit under the waters and be alone with my thoughts. It’s truly where I feel most comfortable being vulnerable with myself.
It’s also where I take the cutest fucking selfies and nudes. Just sayin’.
Check out this adorable fucking queer right here! Now who wants to hop in with me?!
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Before I even read this ( had a look at the picture first) I was like, he looks adorable! And so good! There is something so tender about your glance and just this picture generally, which I think clearly reflects what you’re saying about how showers are your safe vulnerable place. I feel drawn to hot water too when I feel sad nowadays
Hey Marie, thank you for commenting! Just as a heads up I’m nonbinary and my pronouns are they/them/their 😊
I really appreciate you mentioning my eyes! Here honestly my favorite feature for myself and I try to make sure I showcase them as much as possible lol. And yeah there really is just something so soothing, calming, and almost even sensual about hot water.
I’m glad that you find such comfort and enjoyment in it too ❤
I love everything about this photo. 🥰
Showers are frequently difficult for me to do on a regular basis due to depression, but I should try to remember that they can be relaxing, healing and sexy. Thanks for the reminder!
You’re welcome! If you decide to give one a try next time try to treat it almost like a grounding experience. Let yourself feel the soothing sensation of the water cascading over your body, hear the calming sound of it dripping around you like you’re out in a heavy rain.
Doesn’t have to be about anything else, don’t have to wash anything or rush yourself, just be in it.
Then let me know what you think!!
Gorgeous. I agree, a nice hot shower is a wonderful place for feeling all sorts of things 😉
Hells yeah it is! 😁😘
I think hot water is healing. I do the same…it just makes me feel so much better, washing away whatever needs to be washed away. And shower selfies are devine!
I’m glad they’ve been so healing for you too. And those selfies, right!? Almost always top quality just by virtue of it being in the shower lol.
Showers are emotional self-care for me too! I must admit that I have never found shower sex really alluring. The times I have tried, one of us always ended up cold and we just stepped on each other’s toes. So you must have some great shower sexskills! Share them with the world! And you do look cute here!
I’m not one to brag but…. yes, I AM really fucking great at getting people of in the shower haha. One of my specialties!
To be clear though it’s mostly a lot of manual stimulation, oh and also anal in the shower can be incredible with any partner or friend!
I also love showers as foreplay. Just caressing somebody in them, washing each other, kissing, teasing, making each other more and more aroused until we just can’t wait a second more then it’s a quick dry and off to the bed ❤