[NOTE: Hey peeps, just a heads up that this is more of a personal, rambling piece on queerness, dissociation, and birthdays.] So, it’s my birthday today and I’ve got pretty messed up feels about it tbh. It’s not that I hate birthdays, or even that I dislike them, It’s more that they’re just a…
Why I Don’t Put a Period After the “Mx” In “Mx Nillin”
Fact: the vast majority of people I have interacted with throughout my life do not respect, or even acknowledge most of the terminology I used to describe myself, or that other non-binary or gender nonconforming people use for themselves either. Also fact: most people will either pointedly, defensively, or aggressively, work to undermine the language…
The 30-year-old Queer
I feel like I’m in a weird, often conflicting, headspace about my gender and sexuality lately. On one hand, this is the first time that I have ever fully embraced myself as being queer as fuck and I am doing so during what is undoubtedly my sexual prime. So, yay! On the other hand, I’m…
4 Tips To Manage Jealousy and Insecurity in Queer Non-Monogamy
I know that my partner loves me very much. I know from how they cuddle up to me every night as I fall asleep. I know from how they tenderly kiss me awake every morning. I know from how they help me pick out clothes on days that I feel particularly dysphoric. I know from…
I’m That Angry Queer
So, it dawned on me recently that I think I’ve been, like, subconsciously going back into the closet… Over the past two months I have been dressing less and less femme, I’ve been very sporadically wearing bras (when I had previously been wearing them every day), I’m not shaving very often (going weeks with stubble),…



