For most of my early transition after coming out I felt pretty trapped. As soon as I had revealed that I might be trans I found myself bombarded with unprompted advice and guidance on how I could start “passing” as a woman, despite the fact that I had never explicitly stated that I perceived myself…
Tag: gender feels
Early in My Coming Out
I know that content has been kinda slow around here as of late. I’ve been going through some burnout from having to deal with the aftermath of calling out transphobia in sex blogging over the last month, but I was going through a whole bunch of photos from my various cell phones over the years…
Queer Inclusive Words for Trans and Non-Binary Folks to Describe Their Genitalia
One of the most essential parts of reclaiming autonomy over myself as a queer enby was taking back the language used to describe my body. The ways that I had referred to my penis and other parts of my body, prior to coming out, obviously no longer felt comfortable. Yet because I wasn’t transitioning from…
The Discrimination Problem with Rebel’s Notes’ Smut Marathon
CW: This post contains discussion and descriptions of transphobic remarks, sentiments, and comments. [Header image courtesy Broadly’s “Gender Spectrum Collection: Stock Photos Beyond the Binary“] [UPDATE March 12, 2020: Rebels Notes is now running a “new” version of the Smut Marathon called The Blogable Fiction Marathon. Before you consider participating in this event, or any…
Queer Hair, Don’t Care
Welcome to Day 20 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 20 post here: “That Ass Though” Just kidding, I totally care. Honestly, my bright, loud, super gay side-cut hair is hands down one of the most consistently queer affirming things about my appearance for me. Sadly,…