Once upon at time, I was completely convinced that in order to feel happy, safe, and fulfilled in my life after coming out as queer and trans, I had to strive to pass as a “woman”. Not only that, but I also had to feel uncomfortable with, or outright hate, my body. I mean, if…
Tag: non-binary
Survival Guide to Shopping for Femme Clothes When You’re Read as Masculine
CW: this post contains descriptions of queerphobic harassment and abuse I am a fat, stocky, non-cis-passing queer with a hot pink side-cut, hairy tits, and varying degrees of stubble on my face. Needless to say, clothes shopping for me can be a real shit-show. Fact is that no matter what store I go to, or…
Well, Shit. I Think I was Queer the Whole Damn Time, Y’all.
It’s the time of year when I get pretty self-reflective and that means looking back to the days when I wasn’t out as queer or trans. Now, I stayed in the closet for a LONG time. Way too long. Over 25-years too long, if I’m being completely honest with myself. But even though most of…
7 Queer Names for Trans and Non-Binary Folks to Call Their Genitals
One of the most essential parts of reclaiming autonomy over myself as a queer androbabe has been taking back the language used to describe my body. Everything that had previously applied, obviously, no longer felt right and the binary alternatives for cis fem genitalia weren’t appropriate either because they described parts that I neither had,…
Talking Self-Expression, Queer Furrys, and Sex Positive Comics with SalKitten
[CW: This interview contains NSFW, sexually explicit artwork.] If you’ve been following the blog for a while now then you have likely already surmised that I’m a pretty big furry fan, or more specifically: I fucking LOVE queer furry porn. Lucky for me, the furry art scene is BURSTING with queer furry porn and sex…




