NOTE: Due to some major issues of transphobia within the sex blogging community, and an overwhelming amount of misgendering happening to myself and other trans and gender nonconforming bloggers, I unfortunately feel the need to once again clearly state my gender and pronouns at the beginning of every single post I make for the foreseeable…
Tag: non-monogamy
Sex, Cuddles, and Polyamory in the Time of COVID-19
Hey friends! I’m sure it’s safe to say that like me, a lot of y’all probably aren’t feeling your absolute best right now. I’m right there with you and hope you’re doing the best you can during these time. And for those of you like me who also struggle with depression and anxiety as is……
A Delicious Bond
Welcome to Day 16 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 16 post here: “A Look of My Own“ It’s interesting to me that many of my closest, most fulfilling, most satisfying, and longest lasting friendships have all had one thing in common: they all involve some…
Fluid Bonding
Welcome to Day 15 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery. Read 2019’s Day 15 post here: “Getting Freaky Naughty” [NOTE: the following is an account of my own personal experiences with barrier free sex within very particular dynamics that I feel are safe, honest, and communicative. I am NOT…
Moving On When You Can’t Stop Holding On
I’m grieving, friends. And that’s a good thing because if I’m being honest here I haven’t really allowed myself to do that these past few weeks since Kate ended the polyamorous triad. I think that part of the difficulty is that we’re not treating it as a traditional breakup so much as a transition from…




