I’ve been thinking about whether or not to say anything about this for the better part of a week now, but July 30th was my 7-years of blogging anniversary and that’s something to celebrate, right? This past week also happened to be my 33rd birthday and I don’t know about y’all but I find I…
Tag: non-monogamy
Damn, We Look Good Naked Together!
I don’t get to see Taylor often but when I do it is always so fucking amazing. We get a lot of work done, have deep conversations, spend hours together cuddling naked with Fal, and share so many genuine laughs. I always miss them the instant they have to leave. Seriously, they’re one of very…
The First Person
Welcome to Day 14 of February Photofest 2019 on MxNillin.com People always look at me weird when I say that I’m in a long-term, complicated, polyamorous relationship with myself; but it’s true! I mean, generally speaking, I’ve shared more intimacy, romance, and vulnerability with myself than any other person on the planet and if this…
4 Amazing Things That Happened to Me During this Pretty Shitty Year
2018 has kinda been balls, y’all. Between seeing a stark rise in violent white supremacy, culturally centric hate speech, the reversal of civil rights, targeted murders of vulnerable minorities, the rise of full blown fascism in the Americas, a massive boom in transphobia worldwide and tons of other depressing and terrifying shit, it’s been hard…
Fucking Friends: Why I Need Ethical Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images.] It happened! I FINALLY got to meet my sex blogger bestie, Taylor J Mace, and it was hands down one of the best weekends ever for SO many reasons. I mean, I’ve had some great weekends with other friends too but never any that involved as much casual…




