Hi! I turned 35 a couple of days ago on Wednesday! For some, that’s a big cause for celebration but unfortunately I always get really, really fucking sad on my birthdays for some reason. Not 100% sure why but it’s a consistent enough thing for me that I often also see a pretty big drop…
Tag: non-monogamy
Five Reasons Why I Swipe Right on Tinder
Confession: I fucking love Tinder. Sadly though, it’s not necessarily the best place for a queer, non-binary, polyamorous, demisexual, greyromantic person, such as myself, to find connections that feel safe, comfortable, and understanding. But all is not lost! Here are the five primary reasons that I will likely swipe right on your Tinder profile to…
Breeding His Cunt
I’m just here to straight up brag with this one. This is my fuckmeat! [Formerly known as “fucktoy] This is one of his holes that I get to breed, and stretch, and fill, over and over again. After months of sexting and negotiating needs, wants, boundaries, etc. we finally got to hook-up a few weeks…
I Have a Squish on You: Feels From Inside of an Aromantic Crush
Not too long ago I wrote about how I experienced “love” as an aromantic queer, and as part of the discussion that arose with friends and peers afterward I was often asked about whether or not I had ever had a crush on somebody or not. And like, yeah, just not in the way that…
Besties With Benefits
I’m pretty stoked y’all! Despite how challenging the last while has been, and how extra difficult life felt with not being able to see my partners, friends, lovers, and community in the ways that I’d really like to, things have been really starting to come together a bit more as of late. Not only do…




