My counsellor recently asked me if there was any sort of calming, happy place that I went to in my mind, or anywhere physically that I could occasionally visit to relax and recharge. Normally I’d have said no, because I’m not really one to have much of an emotional and sentimental connection to locations in…
Tag: polyamory
After 7-Years (and Two Days) of Blogging
I’ve been thinking about whether or not to say anything about this for the better part of a week now, but July 30th was my 7-years of blogging anniversary and that’s something to celebrate, right? This past week also happened to be my 33rd birthday and I don’t know about y’all but I find I…
4 Amazing Things That Happened to Me During this Pretty Shitty Year
2018 has kinda been balls, y’all. Between seeing a stark rise in violent white supremacy, culturally centric hate speech, the reversal of civil rights, targeted murders of vulnerable minorities, the rise of full blown fascism in the Americas, a massive boom in transphobia worldwide and tons of other depressing and terrifying shit, it’s been hard…
Fucking Friends: Why I Need Ethical Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images.] It happened! I FINALLY got to meet my sex blogger bestie, Taylor J Mace, and it was hands down one of the best weekends ever for SO many reasons. I mean, I’ve had some great weekends with other friends too but never any that involved as much casual…
Taking Care of Myself In More Ways Than One
[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images] While I left off my last lewds post in good spirits, it’s been another rough couple of weeks and I’m honestly feeling really down again. Why? Because for the third fucking time this year Fal and I had to have our fucking apartment sprayed for bed bugs. When…




